Success Academy With Brandon T. Adams
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There’s no singular way to becoming successful. Each person has their own journey to success, but there are certain building blocks that make it much easier to become as successful as you desire, your own way. Brandon T. Adams is an Emmy® Award-Winning Producer and Host of the TV series, Success in Your City. Joining John Livesay, Brandon explains some of the most important building blocks for becoming successful. Let this lively conversation between Brandon and John serve as a call to empower you to become successful on your own terms.
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Success Academy With Brandon T. Adams
Our guest is Brandon T. Adams, who’s a successful entrepreneur at a young age. He tells a story about how he wasn’t even confident and couldn’t speak that well when he was a child. Now, to see him as confident and speaking all around the world around the skills that he’s acquired as an entrepreneur and how to be successful is quite inspiring. He said, “If you want to build your network, the quickest way to get someone’s attention is to make them money, and that when you work with the best, you are seen as being the best.” Brandon shares his passion and enthusiasm in a way that you have never known before. Enjoy the episode.
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Our guest is Brandon T. Adams who is an Emmy Award-winning producer and host of the TV series Success in Your City. He’s a podcaster, speaker, inventor, adviser, crowdfunding expert as well as a media expert. He’s a serial entrepreneur and he owns a stake in a number of businesses including the Accelerant Media Group, Live to Grind, Young Entrepreneur Convention, Success in Your City, and more. He and his team have worked with high profile clients like Kevin Harrington from Shark Tank and John Lee Dumas, XPRIZE, and many more. They’ve raised over $35 million to date and he’s the Associate Producer and the youngest feature entrepreneur in the movie Think and Grow Rich: The Legacy, which is based on the classic book Think and Grow Rich. Brandon has been featured on the cover of Inventors Digest, USA Today, NBC News, and was listed among Seven Millennial Influencers to follow in 2008 by BuzzFeed. Brandon, welcome to the show.
Thank you. It’s always weird hearing your intro, it puts you down memory lane, but I’m excited to be here with you and provide massive value to your audience.
Are you still a Millennial? Everybody’s dying to know you’re in the top seven in 2018, now it’s 2020. Did you cross over?
I’m still a Millennial. I’m 30 years old. It’s crazy. I can’t believe I’m 30, but time flies. I’m still young.
Take us as far back as you want. You could go to childhood, high school, your college days at Iowa State. When did you decide you wanted to have this career being an entrepreneur and doing adventurous things?
I was born an entrepreneur. When I was born on December 31st, 1989, my dad was happy because I was a tax cut and my mom was mad because I wasn’t the New Year’s baby. Instantly, I came out and I was an entrepreneur. My dad was already trying to figure out ways to make money off me and for me to make money. I’ve always been an entrepreneur. I grew up in an ice business. I sold packaged ice and I can sell ice to an Eskimo. My dad was a wholesale distributor. We delivered bag ice. Envision cubes of ice in your drink. Every time you have a drink of water with ice or a drink of whiskey, you’re going to think of me. We sold packaged ice for a living and growing up I was in that business. It was ingrained in me about working with customers, buying and selling things, and this whole entrepreneurship thing. I saw my dad running the business. I saw the ups and downs when he was about to lost it all, and then when he had the ups in the business. That was ingrained in me at a young age.
One disadvantage I had at a young age that became a part of who I am is I was born with a speech impediment. As a kid, I had a lisp and I couldn’t communicate like other people who bothered me. I made it my burning desire to become a great speaker and overcome my speech impediment. At nine years old, picture this kid looking in front of a mirror and doing, “I am a great salesman, I am a great speaker, I am a success.” I was driven to overcome that. I’m never getting bullied. I would cry. I would tell my parents, “I don’t want to go to speech class and all these things.” Eventually, my disadvantage became my advantage. I started putting myself out of my comfort zone. I always volunteered to speak in front of the class even though I wasn’t a good speaker. I would go and do things that scared me. Eventually, I started to become a better speaker. By high school, I lost my speech impediment. By college, I got better at speaking and I went to be a paid speaker. It’s crazy where things go. I’m going to college. I was at university. Some people go there and they get great grades. That wasn’t me. I got a 1.68 GPA in my freshman year. I stay a little bit of sex, drugs, and alcohol a lot. I got kicked out of my dorms five days before we were done at school for fighting. I was down this path of I didn’t know where I was going to go.
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Where I had this change pivot part of my life is when I was introduced to the book, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. If you haven’t read the book, everybody should read it. It’s a game-changer. Here’s what I took away from the book. People like Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, and Andrew Carnegie, all these people that pioneer the things that we have now, I saw what they achieved. They weren’t 4.0 students. They weren’t the smartest people out there but this is what they had. They had a burning desire. They had a vision for themselves. They surrounded themselves with the right people and they didn’t quit until they got something. When I was reading that book in my college apartment, wondering what I was good at next, I realized that anything was possible for me if I kept going. That ultimately became what changed my life. I went forward in anything I took on. I had this mindset of I can achieve it and I had this confidence about myself that no matter what it is, I’m going to take it on because if I keep going and keep pushing, I’m going to be a success. That formed me into who I am now as an entrepreneur. The things that I do from producing TV shows, speaking, being able to speak with people like you and impacting people’s lives in a positive way.
Let’s take this story of origin, which is certainly fascinating. Getting in trouble right at the end of school. I had a similar situation where I was never somebody who got in fights and then somebody was constantly picking on me. Several days before graduating from junior high, we were on some field trip and he started on me again. We got into a fight and he had gotten his braces off and I happened to pop him in the mouth and the front tooth came out. You can imagine the drama of that. Luckily, they find the tooth and put it back in his mouth. That’s something you can do now but it is an unexpected behavior outcome. Everyone has a breaking point and you can also not judge yourself or anybody else based on one particular incident.
Getting in a fight or hitting somebody in the mouth is not life-changing where you get kicked out of school permanently. There was some talk about, “Should we let him graduate?” I haven’t thought about that in years. It does feed into the concept that everyone’s got a story and because you see a person at a certain level of success or confidence doesn’t mean they were always there. In your case, with the stuttering and the fact that you transformed that into being a speaker. Let’s fast forward to your relationship with Kevin Harrington from one of the original sharks on Shark Tank. You don’t just have a casual relationship with him. How did you at such a young age relatively speaking, because Kevin’s not in your generation and neither am I. I’m always impressed when somebody young breaks through the noise and the clutter and finds enough of things in common that that person says, “I’m going to spend some time with you.”
A lot of my friends and mentors are 20, 30, and 40 years older than me and I clicked with that. I believe I’m an old soul and I relate with people that are doing big things, people like Kevin Harrington or other people I’ve connected with and work with. It started with me first doing a lot of research. The one thing I learned about life and then thinking the rich and businesses would, for one, you understand a person, you understand what they’re trying to achieve and you can find ways to help them achieve that and become a person of value to them. Eventually, you’re going to get to work with them. You look at history and you’ll get Edwin C. Barnes who put himself into business with Thomas Edison. He went to him and he said, “I’m here to go in business with you.” He knew he already made up his mind before he got on a train and went to see him. It took two years before he got past sweeping floors. He went into business with him and became wealthy because of it. I look at somebody like Kevin Harrington. When I came to him in 2015, back when I wore a suit and tie and all that. I created a personal video in front of my computer and I sent it to him. It got to his assistant and I said, “I wanted to work with him in some way and that I wanted to help him.”
That video led to five more months of negotiation and conversation with his assistant to even get to talk to Kevin. I want him to come to speak at my event. I ended up committing a large sum of money to get him to come to speak at my event. At that time I didn’t have the money, but I committed and figured it out later. I ended up meeting with him. He had seen what I had done back in 2016. I helped a guy named John Lee Dumas do about a $500,000 in a month for the book, The Freedom Journal. He wanted me to do that for him. I had created this value proposition. I had created this expertise in an area and I use the expertise to add value to people like Kevin Harrington. Ultimately, what I did is I made them money. The quickest way to get somebody’s attention is either you pay them or you make them money.
There are a lot of people that talk and they say, “I’m going to help you. I can do this for you.” Talk is talk. Can you walk the walk? What I did is I walked the walk for a lot of people and it was a lot harder than I thought it was. I would say I’m going to do something, but I realized it was a lot harder than I thought, but I always did it. When you have that track record, that street cred, what happens is other people get attracted to you. That’s how I built a relationship with Kevin. He spoke at my first event in 2016. I wound up going on to coauthor a book together. We then went on to do multiple multimillion-dollar deals and we advise companies together. He’s become a good friend. I have a father that I love dearly and he’s like another father in the space that I have. That relates to anything. No matter who you want to connect with and being in business with, it’s simple when you think about it. How can you help them? How can you help them make money and how can you help them get towards their goals? If you do that for them, they will reciprocate and they will help you in return.
We’re going to make that a tweet, “The quickest way to get someone’s attention is to make them money.” You also mentioned John Lee Dumas. For those people who may not know who he is. He hosted a wonderful successful podcast called Entrepreneurs on Fire, which I’ve had the privilege of being on and I got one of his Freedom Journals. It’s a big tool to help people write down what their daily goals are and stay focused. What I love about the Kevin Harrington story that I wasn’t expecting to hear was, you told a case story as opposed to a case study, which is what traditional people do. They would say, “Here’s my case study. On this date, I did this, and then I did that.” It’s dry and you told the story.

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A good story has a little bit of struggle. It took me five months talking to the assistant to get in front of Kevin and then the little surprise in that story is, “I’d done something for somebody well-known in the podcast business.” John Lee Dumas publishes his revenue of how much money he’s making on his podcast for people. It’s inspirational and transparent. That course begs another story, which is what great storytelling does. People are intrigued enough to want to know more. Let’s back up. John Lee Dumas is a successful guy like Kevin Harrington. You’re this twenty-something-year-old guy going, “I have some expertise already that you don’t have to help you sell this Freedom Journal.” Can you tell us a little bit about what that expertise was and how you got it?
I want to add quickly to Kevin Harrington’s story that I realized as we were talking about this. When I initially got the first meeting with him in person, somebody said, “I can get you a twenty-minute conversation with Kevin in person in a car ride. You’ve got to be in Florida tomorrow, fly here.” I flew to Florida and I went there. I took the opportunity to get that and that’s where we made the deal to work together, just so you know.
Here’s the lesson. What are you willing to do that most people are not willing to do? How bad do you want it? How much are we willing to invest in it? When I was interviewing for a job, I flew myself to New York. I said I was going to be there anyway seeing friends and I wasn’t. I remember meeting Michael Phelps and asking him what his secret was. He told me that when he was young, his coach said, “Michael, are you willing to work out on Sundays?” “Yes, coach.” “Great. We got 52 more workouts in a year than your competition.” That is, “What’s the takeaway?” What are we willing to do to become an Olympic athlete level in our business life that other people aren’t willing to do or haven’t thought to do? A lot of people will be like, “I don’t have the money. Flying all that way just for twenty minutes, is it worth it?” All of that shows your character and your tenacity as opposed to you telling us you have it. That’s why I want to circle, underline, highlight with a couple of other stories to amplify your story. Now, people have three examples.
It’s taking action. You have to burn the bridges like you’ve done to go to the interview. You burn the bridges behind you. You assume the sale, the opportunity, and you just go. You can’t have any defeat in your mind. You have to have the sole focus of, “This is going to happen. I’m going to do this.” That’s how I’ve lived my life. In the last few years, I’ve lived that way. It’s allowed me to get a lot of amazing opportunities. Going back to the expertise of how I got to work with John Lee Dumas, and this is a great lesson and this is the beginning of where I got into podcasting. In 2015, I started a podcast show called the University of Young Entrepreneurs, which is now the Live to Grind Podcast. We have over 400 episodes. What I did is I wanted to learn from other people around the country. I wanted to pick their brain. I didn’t say, “Can I come to pick your brain?” I said, “Can I bring you on my show and share it with my audience?” I didn’t have any audience at the time, but I’m going to share it with my audience.
John Lee Dumas was one of the people that came to my show. While in this process of doing podcasting, I was starting to build my brand as a crowdfunding expert. I had not that much experience in crowdfunding. I wrote a book on crowdfunding to build my brand. I started going on TV shows and morning shows around the country because when you’re on a morning show, when you’re on video and people see you as this expert, whether you are the expert or not. I was doing all these things to build up the street credit and credibility as a crowdfunding expert. When we got done doing that interview for him going to my podcast show, at the end of every show, I always said, “I’m a crowdfunding expert. If I can help you in any way, please let me know.” Always let people know how you can help them. He said, “I’m thinking about doing this campaign for a book called The Freedom Journal. Maybe I’ll call you up on your services.” That was it. As soon as the show got done, I rescheduled the call. We jumped on a call. I gave him all the advice I had and I took the initiative and spent a whole day creating a campaign page for him. He did log in and say, “Let’s do this.”
I took on the campaign at no fee because I saw an influential person in podcasting. I knew that if I could prove to him how good I was, he would share with his audience and I was right. It was five months of me working with him at no cost. When we launched a campaign, we made it the fifth-largest crowdfunding campaign in history for a book. This is what’s happened from that. He brought me on his show four times. Every time I’ve been on the show, I’ve made money. Once I made $50,000 from going on one of the episodes. That experience led me to work with Kevin Harrington, XPRIZE and Think and Grow Rich: The Legacy and being part of the movie Think and Grow Rich. That one thing that I did to take the initiative to add value. First, I built up this area of expertise, crowdfunding, and then I offered value. I gave massive value and then that was the catapult domino effect for my career. That’s why I get the opportunities I do now.
A lot of people have also heard about XPRIZE. We know you’ve made a splash from investing in yourself and believing in yourself and getting proof of concept, which got to Kevin and say, “I want that too.” What did you do with XPRIZE?
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This is a funny story. I turned XPRIZE down first.
Do you know why I love this so much? I’m constantly teaching people about storytelling genres. In a classic romantic comedy movie, 9 times out of 10, the couple that ends up together doesn’t like each other at first. The people that you’ll hear about, I read that the guy who played Captain America turned down the part because he wasn’t confident enough, Chris Pratt. You can’t imagine anyone else in that role and then you hear the backstory of, “I turned it down. They haven’t talked me into it because I was too insecure about my ability to do it. Not that I think it was a good part or that I was too good for it, but it was the opposite.” You’ll start looking for them and going, “There’s that classic scene where they hate each other and then they end up liking each other.” First of all, most people would be like saying, “Would you like to go on Oprah, when she was on?” “No, I turned it down.” I can’t wait to hear how this goes. I did want to take a beat and under. Already, you’re leaning in because who in the world would turn down XPRIZE?
It’s funny because it’s this whole demand when somebody they can’t get something, they want even more. When this happened, they hit me in a time of my career where I was focused on one thing. It was when I went on this endeavor to create the TV series Success in Your City. I had stopped everything else. I had a company I was doing well in and we stopped that. I went all-in on the show and right when I was going all-in on this show, they wanted me to help them fundraise and be a part of a project. The project was called the Ironman. They want to do a $10 million crowdfund for people with ALS. It was this exoskeleton suit. At the time, I didn’t know that’s what it was going to be, but they wanted my crowdfunding services. I did a call with them initially. I added a mass of value to them and showed what I did. They kept following up and I was busy. I didn’t respond, then I did respond. I said, “I’m busy right now.” It got to the point where the CEO called me on my cell phone. Marcus was his name. They have a different CEO now. He left me a voicemail, “Brandon, what’s it going to take for me to get you to come to XPRIZE?”
I said, “Let’s do this. This is my ask, by the way.” I initially said, “I will fly out and I will pick two people that I know are the best, and we’ll come in and we’ll give you everything we know. These I believe are the best people in the country for crowdfunding.” My ask is, “You have to sponsor my event in Iowa and I want Peter Diamandis to come to speak at my event.” That was my ask. They said, “You’re going to ask big. You never know what you’re going to get.” They said, “Peter doesn’t even come and speak at our events. Let alone in Iowa, but we’ll give you our CEO and he’ll come to speak.” That was where that happened. They flew us out. They sponsored our event. They paid us a good sum of money and he was committed to speak. The sad part of that story is before the event, he had left XPRIZE and then he couldn’t speak anymore. He apologized. He was like, “I got scheduled to meet with Tony Robbins and Richard Branson and these people. I can’t miss this meeting.” I was like, “I get it.” That’s how that happened. How I got the opportunity is because I worked with influential people.
If you want to become the best in your space for one, you may not be the best at what you do, but if you can show that you’re the best at what you do, if you can work with the best, you are seen as the best. I worked with celebrities. I worked with the original shark from Shark Tank. I worked with John Lee Dumas, the top podcaster. I worked with Think and Grow Rich and The Napoleon Hill Foundation forward working on the Think and Grow Rich movie. I worked on all these sexy projects. I might have not been the best in the whole industry, but I was seen as the best. Because of that, that led me to get to work with XPRIZE. For me personally, one of the greatest accomplishments to say I got to work with them because I had read the book Bold. I had studied XPRIZE. I love what they’re doing with advancing our abilities in life. It all came back to building up my expertise in one area, showing a few select people that I was worthy, and then the rest brought itself to me.
There’s our second tweet of the episode, “When you work with the best, you are seen as the best.” I love it. This concept of Social Proof. That’s why having footage of yourself or being quoted in magazines and press all of that gives you the social proof. From an advertising standpoint, we used to call it co-branding with people and brands co-brand with each other. Back in the day, United Airlines cobranded with Starbucks and they served Starbucks on United exclusively to get people to sample it before it opened up in their city and to have a competitive advantage against another airline.
Think of yourself as a brand. It’s the first step to co-branding like you’ve done and given many great examples. It would be interesting to hear about your experience being on live TV and being in a movie because a lot of people think about that. In my experience in live TV, the adrenaline is going so much. It’s almost like the three minutes flies by and being on the soundstage. I remember the first time robotic cameras came at me and then I had to talk about tips on being confident and my heart was racing. I was like, “Where are the people pushing the cameras?” That’s what I had at the other studio. There are lots to being comfortable on camera. What have you learned on your journey?

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I’ve learned a lot. I’ll tell you, it’s addicting. It feels amazing. It’s like an addiction. You go on TV, there’s no other feeling like it that says, “It’s a lot.” I’ve been on 50 morning shows across the country. In 2015, I was going to a lot of morning shows. It was like I’m this eagle thing. I want to see how many shows I could get on because there’s a whole process to it. There’s a lot of work but I know how to do it. I learned that for one TV storytelling, all of it is entertainment. Can you be entertaining? Can you keep people’s attention? Can you tell a story? It’s elevating your voice, going loud or going low, using your hands, smiling, all these different things, and using words that people can think of. Names of people or stories that people can relate to because if they can relate to that, they’ll be able to relate to your message and you’ll get your point across.
Morning shows and live TV is becoming the ultimate storytelling. Sadly, you look at morning shows across the country or news channels, there are a lot of dark and sad stories. Anytime I went on a show, I was in positive energy. I wanted to bring the fire. What I’ve learned from going on morning shows is learn to master your communication. Be exciting and entertaining. When you can be exciting, entertaining, and communicate your words into descriptive graphic in terms of people can visualize that, you will be a hit. You’ll get your point across and you’ll get what you want out of a situation. It helped me become a better storyteller and communicator. I’m doing it at a point because as you said, it’s like 90 seconds clip to 6-minute. Usually, the 2.5 to 3 minutes you have, it goes quickly. You have to know going into the interview what you’re going to say. Also, you have to be good at controlling the conversation because if you let the host do it, you will get what he wants you to say. I’ve been on morning shows where I feel like I was better than the host and I helped them with communicating the interview.
Were you talking about crowdfunding?
Crowdfunding. The first thing I did was I found a niche everybody wanted to hear about. Everybody wanted to know what it was like to raise money through crowdfunding. I found that was a sexy topic people want to hear and I utilized that to get on morning shows. The thing I did, I call it unique like a local hook, is I pick the campaign at every city that had a crowdfunding campaign live and I promoted them and said, “I want to promote this local campaign in Reno or California.” I loved it because these people didn’t even know. I got a guy in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I called him up and I said, “I want to get you on the morning show. This guy doesn’t even know me and he couldn’t believe it. I’m like, “No, seriously, they’re expecting you.” I got him a TV segment. We went on together and then he got another segment. I’ll never forget, he came up to me like, “Brandon, I don’t even know you. Why would you do this for me? Thank you so much.” I’ll never forget the emotion I had. I’m like, “I get something for someone I don’t even know.” The feeling I got was more than anything I could have ever got from this situation. That’s my TV show experiences.
To give people some tips so that they can try to figure out how they could get this experience that you and I have had. Not everyone has had it. You need to think of a sound bite that’s going to grab that producer’s eye. A lot of authors like to try to get on TV and very few do. My book Better Selling Through Storytelling does not sound like a book that you’d have on a morning talk show. It sounds like something for MSNBC, which is fine. The pitch that publicist and I came up with was, “How to go from invisible to irresistible in your dating life and in your career?” They were like, “That’s it.” They show the little ladder and then of going from each step and then you go back and forth between the dating and this and that. Typically, you give the people questions and you’ve got to stay connected to the hosts, whether you’re on a podcast or a TV show, they are the ones that have the audience.
The more you use the host’s name and stay focused on them, don’t look at the camera. All these things you can do if you’re a rookie that makes you not come across confident. I remember one of the guys said, “You’re also a speaker. I give talks, but I get nervous still. Do you still get nervous?” I thought to myself, “I’m not going to make it about me so much.” I said, “Would you say you get butterflies in your stomach?” He said, “Yes. Exactly. That’s what happens to me even though I’m on camera every day.” I said, “The goal is not to get rid of those butterflies, but to get them to fly information.” That’s a soundbite that works every time for my talks and on TV. He didn’t know it. He thought I made it up at the moment. You talk about talking and controlling the conversation, he was trying to go off the script about, “Do you get nervous when you speak?” I made it about him and then pulled out that moment where I asked him a question that goes, “Are you feeling this?” then do that so everybody at home can watch it.
What I like about what you did there is you coached him on a live TV and you have that clip.
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The producer said, “Monday morning is hard to get them to laugh because they’re up so early after the weekend of being off and you did.” You can see in the last few seconds when we were off the script and they were riffing. I make them laugh by that comment. You have to be comfortable with silence when you’re a confident person. I wondered if you had any thoughts around that topic, being comfortable with silence.
Silence is a powerful thing. It’s awkward for some people because people want to talk, they don’t want to silence. Sometimes the silence at the right time like your public speaking or let’s say you’re doing something that’s impactful, it lets your communication and point settled to the audience. It gets it across. Silence, they say the person that talks the least is the one that wins and sells. If you listen, this goes in the storytelling. I used this all time and I know you do too. When you talk with a potential lead, you talk with a potential client or a business. When you can let them talk and share everything about them and that you learn about their pain points. You learn everything about them, their avatar. When you communicate back to them, it gives you a way to communicate to them speaking to their pain points, what they want, and doing it through storytelling.
You can say, “Here’s a passive experience of somebody I’ve worked with.” You can pull it. I have all these stories. I call these files in my mind. Depending on who I’m talking to, what show I’m going on, or who I’m potentially going to work with, I look and I think, “What file am I going to pick from here and apply to this conversation?” The more you listen, the more ammunition you get to be able to take on their conversation to win, and then you take on the conversation with a story. That is ultimately why people are successful in sales. They utilize storytelling, but they also utilize power listening and then communicating to that person’s need.
You also have a Success Academy where you help people become number one and figure out their potential and get seen, which is your expertise. Tell us a little bit about who this is for.
I’ve worked with people all over the country in terms of building their brand influence online, doing it through communication, and the power of video. It’s storytelling but mainly through utilizing their story and their expertise on video. I’ve worked with a lot of real estate agents. I’ve worked with the top 1% of real estate agents all over the country. I’ve worked with actors, speakers, authors, you name it. I created that because personally, as we talked about building my brand as a crowdfunding expert, I built my brand as a crowdfunding expert, as TV producer and host, and I’ve helped other people build their brands. I wanted to create something where I could share with them how to build their brand influence. There’s a system, it’s utilizing things like TV, books, telling your story, podcasts, and all these different things that I did. I didn’t know it as brand building at the time. I thought, “This is how I’m going to get myself out there because I don’t have any money to promote myself.” I applied these and then I realized, “This is how you build a brand.” I’ve been working with hundreds of entrepreneurs over the country and helping them build their brand influence online specifically through video content with the Success Academy.
You also have something cool and I signed up for it, which is people can get a text that’s going to motivate them every day. Tell us about that and what do we do? What’s the number and how do we get those text messages?
We had it going daily and what I do is I send out texts here and there to people. If you text my name, Brandon, to the number 64600, what’s going to happen is you’re going to get a text from me and I send out free texts and I give people motivation. I love it. People reach out to me and they’ll say, “Brandon, I needed to hear this.” That reminded them of me. If you want to text my name, Brandon, to the number 64600. Get hooked up to my text list. I don’t send spam, I send motivation. It’s my way to get back. I’m always trying to find ways to add value to a more standpoint. It’s top of mind. People would text me instantly, “It’s Brandon.”

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If people want to learn more about the Success Academy, either launching a podcast, writing a book, getting on TV, becoming a speaker, and figuring out the proven step-by-step system you have, how do they do that?
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That will be the last tweet and the last great way to end the show. You never know where a conversation will lead. It could be a twenty-minute conversation with a former Shark that changes your career. We were in a group and it was in a breakout room and there were 5 or 6 of us. We were only there for six minutes. There was something about you that made me say, “I want to get to know this guy more.” Since then, there you are on my show. It turns out we know a lot of the same people and that’s the energy you talk about. Brandon, any last thought, any last quote you want to leave us with?
First, I thank you, John, for everything you’re doing. You understand the power of storytelling. This book Better Selling Through Storytelling is something that all people need and I mean that. My life, everything I’ve done through podcasts, speaking, and video, it’s storytelling through different mediums and the most powerful, influential people that have impact people’s lives I talk about this when I speak. You look at Gandhi, Martin Luther King, and Steve Jobs, a lot of their success came through storytelling because they learned how to tell a great story of their products. A great story to build a following and influence people. If you can master storytelling, you’ll have success in whatever it is you do. For one, hire you or understand the power of storytelling because it will change your life.
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Thanks so much, Brandon, for sharing your passion for life, your wisdom, and your incredible enthusiasm. You have been a great guest. I’m looking forward to having a lot of people read this.
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The Spirit Of SkinSpirit With Dr. George Baxter-Holder
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No matter how much we try to discount it, appearances affect so many aspects of our lives. Although physical, its influence reaches our mindset and the way we perceive and even feel about people and things. Tapping deeper into how appearance can affect our confidence and view of others, John Livesay interviews Dr. George Baxter-Holder of SkinSpirit. As a board-certified Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner and Doctor of Nursing Practice, he shares with us his knowledge of beauty, giving us a peek into how jawlines make someone look smart or strong and how you can reverse some signs of aging. Reminding you of what is important, Dr. George then talks about the importance of focusing on looking your best now and not what you used to look like ten or fifteen years ago. He also discusses being in business, sharing about the need for having an entrepreneur’s mindset, especially when you are planning to grow what you have already created. From skin to business, this episode is going to give you great insights and advice. Join John and Dr. George to know more.
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The Spirit Of SkinSpirit With Dr. George Baxter-Holder
Our guest is Dr. George Baxter-Holder. He talks about how our appearance can affect our confidence and how we’re perceived as someone who’s smart or even strong depending on our jawline. He always said, “Focus on looking your best now, not what you used to look like 10 or 15 years ago.” He also talks about the importance of mindset in someone who’s an entrepreneur that’s growing what they’ve already created. When you’re all about that, I think Dr. George is the Elon Musk of faces with his technique and his creativity. You’re going to enjoy learning more about entrepreneurship and how to pull in ideal clients.
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Our guest is Dr. George Baxter-Holder. He has firsthand knowledge of how beauty-obsessed nowadays Hollywood actors are. As a child actor in Hollywood, he played the role of a genetically perfect boy on Star Trek: The Next Generation. His bad-boy character made all around him start to age prematurely. In real life, George plays the good guy role, trained as a board-certified Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner and Doctor of Nursing Practice. He helps patients reverse the signs of aging at Skin Spirit Medical Spa in Austin, Texas. He has a Doctorate from Duke University and a Master’s from the University of Washington. While he is no longer “genetically” perfect, he is working on aging well. George, welcome to the show.
Thank you, John. I appreciate you having me on and having a conversation.
We met through a mutual friend when I moved from Los Angeles to Austin, so we have that LA to Austin similarity. The people who are reading this are going to want to have a sense of who you are before we get into some of your insights. Your own story of origin is fascinating just from the little tidbit. Growing up, you can go back to childhood or you can take us right to the set of Star Trek, whatever you want to do.
It’s funny because it feels like it has been this windy, curvy, up and down, dark woods, light mountain travels. When I look back on it though, it’s a straight line. I understand exactly how I got here. I was born on Long Island, New York. I was twelve or so when my parents moved me out to Seattle, Washington in a little island. I went from Long Island to a little short island called Vashon Island. I grew up there knowing that I wanted more out of life. We could spend hours going into all the little ins and outs and details, but to make a long story short, I went to the University of Washington. I did well at school but still I yearn to be an actor. I ended up dropping out of school and moving to Los Angeles to pursue my dream of being on the silver screen. I didn’t do a whole lot of that except for Star Trek which is funny because that has had some legs. I filmed that at the end of 1988 and it’s still talked about many years later.
That show has rabid fans and I’m one of them. Now with the new Picard show, it continues to stay in people’s consciousness. It’s fascinating that sometimes art imitates life. You’re playing a genetically perfect person and everyone else is aging around you. You get into the field of helping people to look their best and not have the ravages of age take over.
The irony is amazing. It’s season two, episode seven, if anyone’s interested in Star Trek: The Next Generation. This innocent genetically perfect boy who Dr. Pulaski beams up to the ship and takes out of this stasis and immediately she starts getting impacted with signs and symptoms of rapid aging. Fast forward to the real-life George Baxter-Holder as a Doctor of Nursing Practice and Nurse Practitioner, I’m in facial aesthetics and work with my clients to reverse the signs of aging and the juxtaposition of that is so fun.
[bctt tweet=”Do you look differently than you feel? Dr. George is the Elon Musk of Faces.” username=”John_Livesay”]
Let’s talk about confidence because that is such a key element to being successful in any area of your life, whether you’re an actor going up against all the other actors for a particular role, and you have to audition. I know in the sales world, you have to go in with some confidence that you believe in your product and what you’re selling. You’re now in the confidence business because how we look, whether we like it or not, whether an actor or not, in order for us to feel confident and at our best, we can’t be worried about our appearance. We have to take care of it and then forget it is my mindset. Talk to me about your tips on confidence from a mindset standpoint, because you and I share that same philosophy of our thoughts, beliefs, and create our experiences. Do you have any affirmations or mantras that you tell yourself before you give a talk or you’re stretching yourself out of your comfort zone and trying something new?
The funny thing is I have a lot of things that I say on a daily basis. My first two words every morning are thank you. Forgive me when I started talking about this stuff, I get emotional and I’ll start to choke up. I’ll try not to do that too much, but it does happen. It’s about well-up of the universal spirit that’s within all of us. It burst out in liquid form. The thing about it is before I do anything on stage, podcasts, or whatever, I say this little thing that God and I have said together for a long time. That is, “God, please don’t let me suck.” It’s become this funny little goofy thing that I don’t take it too seriously, I don’t feel like that’s going to happen but that’s what I want. I want to come off okay. I’d love to be exceptional but I’m okay with adequate. I feel like I strive too hard to be perfect. That striving for perfectionism is such a trap.
Dr. George, you’re singing my song. I talk about this all the time from the standpoint of helping people get off the self-esteem roller coaster where they feel good about themselves if their numbers are up or they’re looking great. They don’t have any acne, wrinkles, or whatever and doubt about themselves if their numbers are down or things are going wrong. This need to be a perfectionist isolates us because nobody is perfect and we can’t relate to somebody who looks or acts perfect. We have to be vulnerable and let people see that we’re not always perfect nor do we need them to be perfect.
Let me tell you a little story exactly about this. It’s funny because what you said is we need to let people see that we’re not perfect. We also need to see it ourselves and being able to laugh at ourselves. I bought the iPhone 11. I was so proud of it. I’m so excited to have these three little cameras. Travis and I are in the middle of moving. I stopped at the title company, I’ve got the trunk open, and got this broom in my trunk, I set my phone down, and I think to myself, “Don’t set your phone down there. You’re going to lock your phone in the trunk.” That was my thought. I didn’t listen to it and that’s the key. I set my phone down and I’m monkeying with this broom handle to try to get the trunk closed. I pushed the broom handle, I slammed the trunk and it wouldn’t close.
I pushed the broom handle in a different way and I slammed the trunk. I did that seven times until I looked over and I had completely obliterated my phone. It’s one after another. The old George would have freaked out and swore. I completely broke down laughing realizing that once again, I didn’t listen to my inner voice. I didn’t heed that and it’s important that when we’re talking about confidence and pride, you have to listen to your innermost self to know that it was good. I did well there and be able to say that to yourself and not feel like, “I’m coming off as arrogant, I’m coming off as too confident,” or “People are going to look down on me because I looked too up at myself.” It’s this weird dichotomy of there’s nothing wrong with being confident.
There’s a difference between confidence and arrogance and that’s the big distinction. I’ve talked to people about perfectionism and I’ve often found that it’s not enough to tell people, “Don’t do this.” You have to give them something to replace it with. What I do is I say, “Become a progressionist.” It’s a new word I made up. We celebrate our progress. When we’re climbing Mount Everest and we’re halfway up, we can look down and go, “Look how much progress we’ve made,” or you can look up and go, “Look how much further I have to go.” Because you’re in the confidence business through skincare and anti-aging, I’m sure you have to work with your patients on this premise that our goal is not perfectionism and there’s going to be a healing process. We need to start celebrating our progress, and I know you take pictures to document the whole experience. Talk to us about that concept of progress and celebrating it.

SkinSpirit: When you have that sharp jaw, it says to the world that you’re confident, strong, and assertive.
It starts in the first consult. To bring out what people love about themselves is important. A lot of my peers in the business will hand someone a mirror and say, “Tell me what brings you in? What bothers you?” I don’t want to know what bothers you about your face. I want to know what you love about yourself and how I can take you to the next level of accentuating that brilliance. It’s always going to be a journey. If I have the opportunity to do everything at once, I usually don’t. Only because I want to see you in two weeks or a month after that and celebrate with you. What you said, that progress, that’s important. I also know if we’re off track.
I have struggled with comparing myself to the younger version of myself. I talk about it in my talks to companies about when we focus on our progress, we succeed. I used to be a swimmer and I remember beating somebody once in breaststroke. You keep your head up and I kept focused on the wall, hit the wall, he turned his head half a second to look to see if he was ahead, and that half a second of looking and I stayed focused caused me to win. Intellectually, I know in business, you need to focus on your progress and not compare yourself to your competitors. You’re the perfect person to help people with this. I’ve heard other people do this, “My best days are behind me,” or “Will I ever have that jawline again? Do I need that jawline to feel successful?” Most people are not underwear models so we don’t need to judge our self-esteem so much on our appearance, and yet we still want to show that we love ourselves enough to take care of ourselves. What advice do you have for people who might be comparing themselves to their younger selves?
That is a fantastic topic because we all do that. We have an image of ourselves. I’ve got my senior pictures from high school and I look at that kid and I’m like, “I want that chin and cheeks back.” The thing about it is I also look good for 54 years old, and I don’t have a problem telling people my age. Clearly, it is an inner glow that shines on the outer surface and that is where it starts. That’s why I start my day with gratitude. That’s why thank you are the first two words out of my mouth. That’s why I do affirmations in the mirror especially on those days where I’m not feeling like that eighteen-year-old and then the aches and the pains. We can’t get caught up in that because that negativity shines also on our face and in our eyes.
If we’re in pain, imagine how scrunched up everything gets.
Doing it with my clients, I only need to do a little bit for people to feel a large impact from what we’re doing because we don’t need to take them back twenty years. We take them back six years. I say that all the time and I picked the number six, I don’t even know why. I picked the number six because it’s not five and it’s not ten. It’s like, “Let me erase six years. I’m good with 48.”
Some people do too much and you’re like, “I don’t know if you’re 40 or 70.” It’s also frozen. You work at Skin Spirit in Austin, but it is part of a larger national brand and expanding. That seems to be the philosophy for the whole brand. Is that why you chose to work with them?
[bctt tweet=”We can’t get caught up in the negative because the negativity shines also on our face and in our eyes.” username=”John_Livesay”]
I remember going for my interview down in Palo Alto. I walked around and I met everybody. Everybody had this glow about them. I am not talking about they all looked pretty because if you lined them all up, you could find flaws if you wanted to. The thing about it is everyone had a glow from within. I asked everybody the same question, “What is the spirit of Skin Spirit?” People hadn’t been asked that before and people understood what I was going for. I got a myriad of answers but there’s a difference in the company that I work for than any other skincare company that I’ve ever been involved with. I teach and train all over the country. I’ve been in a lot of different clinics and there’s something extra special about Skin Spirit you can feel when you walk in.
I felt that when I walked in. There’s a warmth, caring, and energy. You can tell the people they like and respect each other, and are working together. For everyone reading, that’s a great question for you to ask yourself even if you’re a one-person entrepreneur, let alone, if you’re working for a company, “What is the spirit of,” and then insert your company name. You need to have that defined as a brand so that that brand stands for certain values, cultures, and celebrations. I know Skin Spirit is very much about embracing diversity, making a statement about that, and making people feel welcome regardless of anything so that it’s inclusive and not exclusive. I would say it’s one of the brand attributes that I’ve seen and experienced.
What are some of the new techniques? For people who are reading, saying, “People know that they can get a facial,” but it’s not just a normal facial. The facial I got there was off the charts. The word ‘glow’ is even in the name of it. There’s Botox that people know about. That’s that whole artistry of too much, too little and then there are all kinds of other new things going on. Let’s go through the three. Let’s start with a facial and a little bit of description of what’s new in the world of wrinkles. Who should get it? All the other things will be the third bucket. A lot of people who read this are in tech and you’re such an expert in the combination of artistry and technology. If you think of yourself as the Elon Musk for faces because Tesla isn’t just the electric car. It’s the look, design, and artistry of it. What makes a unique facial at Skin Spirit?
I love the fact that you’re starting with the facial because that is where it starts. When I’m doing my consult, I use the tent analogy. I’m talking about the fabric of the tent. The poles of the tent. How the tent is tied down in the foundation of the tent. If we remember that the fabric is the most important thing. The facial is the fabric. It’s taking care of that surface and getting the surface glow. It’s getting your own dermas and collagen to regenerate. That happens with things like the diamond glow or the signature facials. Our facials are not fluffy, feel good. They may feel good for you but that’s not their point. Their point is medical-grade to get results. They’re all results-based, science-based, and medical-grade. In order to get a facial, you have to have a good face exam with one of the medical providers first because they’re that significant. We have experts that are awesome at the office. Tammy and Lynzy are out of this world as exceptional providers. They understand the skin and they understand how to get it to glow and bring out your best.
It’s almost like if you think of your body and your face like a car, people will say, “Do I get I my car washed? Sometimes I need to get my car detailed.” We wash our face every day, hopefully, like brushing your teeth. If you want to make your car looking great, you’re going to get that detailed every so often. The same thing with your face and a facial. That’s the analogy I use. We move into Botox. Whether you’re a man or woman, let’s tie that into confidence. We look in the mirror and we’re not trying to be 40 years younger, but there’s something going on that’s challenging for us to feel 100% confident if there’s something furrow in the brow or there are a lot of wrinkles in your forehead and we’re not even lifting our eyebrows, all that stuff.
It’s key, John. Your audience out there may have an idea in their head when they hear the word Botox. Botox is a brand name, it’s like Kleenex. It was brought to us from the Allergan Corporation. I applaud them for all the direct-to-consumer marketing that’s done. It is a neuromodulator. It modulates the way that the nerve communicates with the muscle. There are other brand names out there. There’s Dysport from Galderma and Xeomin from Merz. What happens is we don’t even know when we’re making micro-movements. When we’re furrowing our brow, we don’t even realize it.

SkinSpirit: Being an entrepreneur means collaborating with the community, providing innovation, and providing a personality that is new and exciting.
I’m concentrating and concerned right now, then somebody comes and says, “Why are you so mad?” It’s like, “People think I’m unhappy or mad,” or “People think I look different than I feel.” This is the key right here. I want you, my client, to have a better grasp and better control to express how you feel on the outside. When I look concerned, I look concerned. Fully treated, not over-treated or frozen. I have full mobility in my face but fully treated with neuromodulator. To understand that a provider like myself can treat and rejuvenate you without over-treatment or botched look. They haven’t done any benefit to our industry. Most of my clients don’t even know that they’ve been treated. They just look great.
We want to look the way we feel on the inside, which is beautiful and at least peaceful, if not happy all the time but certainly not angry or mad because of our face and gravity. You and I had a conversation that fascinated me about the psychology of how we interpret things when we see them. One of the signs of aging is that our temples get hollow. If you see elderly people, you’ll notice that. It starts 40s or 50s, I don’t know when it starts. People make assumptions about you. The stereotype that if you wear glasses, you must be smart. You’ve got this great bow tie on that’s part of your brand. People will go, “He’s a professor, he’s an honor, he’s teaching around the country.” If we don’t have a fully filled out forehead, then you said something that shocked me. Tell us what are the unconscious thoughts there?
There’s a level of intelligence that’s held in the upper third of the face. That’s where your brain is. When you look and you are getting hollowed out in that area, especially for men, and this is key. This is why you and I were having this conversation because we were talking about men. Men can be full here. What that says is, “I’ve got a big brain.” “That man is intelligent, he’s got a big brain.” Look at the picture of you right now. You look like you’ve got a big brain. You’re smart, intelligent, and you help people. It’s not dark, foreboding, and skeletonized. We make those assumptions about the jaws as well.
If we think about some of the characters, going back to your acting experience and the expertise, look at how they do villains in Star Wars. Those people are big. There’s no empathy in them and no intelligence. The other thing you said is a defined jawline isn’t just youthful, it also connotates confidence.
Strength and confidence. They’ve done studies on that. The Kybella is a fat dissolver under the chin. I use it in my practice off label in the jowls as well, because the jowls mask a very tight and sharpened jawline. When you have that sharp jaw, it says to the world that you’re confident, strong, and assertive. If we look to TV or cartoons or things, you have Dudley Do-Right that’s got that sharp, confident chin. You think about these individuals like a strong military man. You think he’s got a sharpened jaw, the salespeople and lawyers.
If we want to seem smarter, we need to come to you and get our temples full. If we want to seem stronger, we need to come to you and get our jawline as defined as possible. It all starts with the fabric of the facial and this whole journey. Do you have any last thoughts for people who are entrepreneurs? In a way, even though you’re connected with Skin Spirit, you’re responsible for generating your clientele, I see your wonderful Instagram posts. Your personality is coming through and you also pull in some of the other staff that you work with. You’re continuing that spirit of we’re having fun here implies you’ll have fun here as well as getting the results you want.
[bctt tweet=”Bring in your personality to your business. No one else has it.” username=”John_Livesay”]
Entrepreneurship gets misunderstood and if I’m an entrepreneur, I’m starting a new business. It’s a growth mindset. Being an entrepreneur means that I am going to collaborate with the community. I am going to provide innovation. I’m going to provide a personality that is new and exciting. That’s what entrepreneurship means to me. I’m even dabbling right now and thinking about doing an MBA in Entrepreneurship, like I need more letters after my name. It’s something that excites me enough to want to go get more information about it. For your audience that are entrepreneurs, I would say to them, bring in your personality. No one else has it. That’s the one thing that you can bring to your business that’s uniquely you. You might make widgets. There are plenty of people making widgets. Go ahead, make the best widgets you can be, but you can’t make John’s widgets because only I can make John’s widgets.
When I wrote my first book, there are a lot of books out there on selling. I thought, “I’ve got my version of it, my story.” That’s the same thing. It goes back to your confidence that what I have to say is worth hearing and the right people will find it. What a great place to end that on. Dr. George, if people want to find you and Skin Spirit, tells us where all your social media handles and all that good stuff.
My social media handle is easy. It’s @Gorgeous_ByGeorge. You can also look it up by my name, George Baxter-Holder. There’s also an old website. You can go to GeorgeBaxter-Holder.com. There’s a little bit more of my personal life and stuff. I have a past. There’s more than Star Trek in my past.
Thank you so much for enlightening us on confidence, strengths, and most importantly, the importance of gratitude.
Thank you, John. Thanks for having me.
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Drugs, Food, Sex and God: An addicted drug dealer goes from convict to doctor through the power of intention
I’m talking with Dr. George Baxter-Holder and George is a board-certified Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner and Doctor of Nursing Practice at Skin Spirit Medical Spa here in Austin, Texas, where I also live. We’re here to talk about LGBT Pride and the importance of getting comfortable with who you are. The more people who share who we are, come out of the closet, let other people know the importance of loving yourself, and accepting yourself. The more other people will be encouraged to know that you can still have a happy life, career, and relationships. You don’t have to sacrifice one for the other. Welcome, Dr. George. You and your husband, Travis are here. We could celebrate pride together and also inspire some other people to do the same.
I can’t thank you enough. This is a great opportunity. To share this message is critical and crucial. It seems like the younger people get it. It’s the more experienced people that need to lighten up.
I wasn’t around during the Stonewall riots to have a memory of them but that is part of our history. At one time, it was illegal to hold hands with somebody in a gay bar, let alone hold hands with somebody on the street. People could get fired, teachers, the military, and all kinds of things. We’ve come a long way and yet, we’ve got people Ellen, Neil Patrick Harris, and Anderson Cooper that are all great role models. Growing up, we had Paul Lynde in the Hollywood Squares with that, “I’m probably gay but I’m not like that, so I don’t relate. I can be funny.” Now, there are many different choices and you don’t feel like you have to “necessarily” stay in the closet for your career to be successful.
Now more than ever, the need to be authentic is what people are buying. You do have such a fascinating past, not only being on Star Trek, but then having your own challenges around sobriety. That is certainly a very common challenge that a lot of people in the LGBT community have. Part of it has to do with messages from childhood or society saying you’re not good enough and you feel guilty or ashamed so you want to numb some of that. Share with us as much or as little as you want about that journey and how you have arrived now to this happy, openly gay life, and a loving relationship with a wonderful husband.
This is one of my favorite love stories. As a young boy, I felt so different. I remember early on feeling that something was not right, my life was not right. I didn’t have a word or a name for it but I knew that I felt different than my peers. Not just different in a funny gregarious way, but different as in there’s something wrong with me. I wanted to numb that feeling. To make a long story short, I did everything I could to numb that feeling from fantasy to sexual exploits. Finally, I dove into the drugs and alcohol world.
I don’t regret any of it looking back on it. I’ve said before when you look at my life, it looks like it’s got lots of ups and downs, peaks and valleys. There was a prison sentence, drug addiction, and hospitalizations in there. When I look at all of that stuff, what I see is a straight line to where I am right now. I wouldn’t change any of it. I have a book out that I wrote in 2013 called Drugs, Food, Sex and God. I remember when I was working on the book, I always talking to Wayne Dyer at one of his symposia. He said, “I’d put God first.”
[bctt tweet=”If you’re getting a message of shame about being the person you know you are inside, go find different messengers.” username=”John_Livesay”]
I looked at him. I said, “Wayne, I always put God first, but that’s not a sexy title.” I broke out of all of that. I went to prison. I was in prison in Y2K. I was praying that the whole Y2K bug would open the doors then I would be free, but that didn’t happen. What happened is when I got out, I realized that this was not the life that I had set out to live. In all my life of fantasy and whatever, this was not it. I needed to make a change. Some people helped me a little forcefully to make a change.
July 8th is an anniversary day for me. I had my first 24 hours clean in July 8th, 2000. There are two other things wrapped up in all of this. We have time for one of them, I don’t know if we have time for the other one. Wrapped up in all of this is that I’m gay and not fitting in with the society that I was raised in because of that. My drug addiction and homosexuality. My sisters were married and I was never going to have that. I was never going to be happy. I was always going to be in this lifestyle that I tried to make myself fit into.
It’s underbelly lifestyle that I felt. In the ‘80s, that’s what we did. We were in dark bars and we didn’t come out of dark bars. As I progressed in my recovery, I met this man, Travis. We were at this party. It was an Alcoholic Anonymous celebration for someone celebrating 25 years. The minute our eyes met, or he saw me, I saw him, but both of us were with other people at this party. We didn’t get introduced, but there was a spark, there was something there. About a month and a half later, we had our first date. Twenty-two days later, I bought his ring and matching one to this one. A couple of months later, I asked him to be my husband. We were engaged for a long time but years later we still have a fairytale life. I have everything that I’ve ever wanted out of life.
You’re describing the darkness. It’s a great metaphor for where you were spiritualy, as well as the darkness of being in a bar because you have to hide. The opposite of pride is shame. That’s why we’re creating this to show and thanks to Skin Spirit for its willingness to celebrate pride and celebrate diversity. The best way to do that is to share stories of people and to let other people know that they’re not alone. If you happen to be in a place of shame or darkness, it doesn’t have to stay like that. That would be our message for everybody. We would certainly have had done something to make the world a tad better.
My feeling is if you’re getting a message of shame about being the person you know you are inside, go and find different messengers.
If you were an openly gay person or an ally, put your money into companies and people who are part of the community and support your beliefs. That’s a nice thank you to Skin Spirit for celebrating and welcoming people of all diversity.
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Profit Factory With Tim Francis
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Are you just operating your business, or are you an actual business owner? Today’s guest is someone who can transform you from the former to the latter. John Livesay sits down with Tim Francis, founder of Profit Factory, where he helps entrepreneurs figure out what they are not doing correctly that’s causing them to not be profitable. Reevaluating why you became an entrepreneur in the first place, Tim talks about the ways we have been misled to chase fame and fortune instead of truth and mastery. He explains why we should seek to improve our businesses and help everyone because that way, the fame and fortune naturally follows. Furthermore, Tim also discusses what it actually means for you to be a creator of content in comparison with someone who just consumes it. Learn how to become profitable and more as Tim shares with you his Know Your Numbers workshop and his other company, Great Assistant, where he highlights the importance of how virtual assistants help you save time.
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Profit Factory With Tim Francis
Our guest is Tim Francis, who is the Founder of two companies. The first one is the Profit Factory and the other one is the Great Assistant. His niche is helping entrepreneurs figure out what they’re not doing correctly that’s causing them to not be profitable. Great Assistant says, “What it is in its name, getting you a great virtual assistant so that you can save time.” His income himself when he got a great assistant more than doubled, and that’s what he helps other people do. We go into a deep dive about truth and mastery and what it means in terms of, are you someone who is a creator of content or just consuming it? The whole concept of looking at fame and fortune is like a cat. If you chase it, you won’t get it but if you sit still and let it come to you, it might jump on your lap. Enjoy the episode.
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Our guest is Tim Francis. He’s an award-winning entrepreneur from Canada and the Founder of Profit Factory and Great Assistant. He is a graduate of the University of Alberta, and back in 2010, he was blindsided by a rare illness that left him unable to walk for three months. He nearly went bankrupt and was forced to restart. He promised himself that he’d never be a burnt-out entrepreneur again, which is a driving motivation, which led to the creation of Profit Factory. Entrepreneurs who are chronically stuck working in their business turned to Tim to achieve the freedom and control that made them want to be an entrepreneur in the first place. He helps entrepreneurs go from operating their business to being a business owner. He helps them arrange things, delegate, and zero in on their sweet spot so they can have time off to enjoy life. Tim, welcome to the show.
Thank you for having me. It’s nice to have you here in Austin as well.
I’m thrilled to be living in the same city that you have taken by storm. You are the person that makes the city desirable to move to because while people may not know you, they know someone like you is living here, which is making a positive impact on the world. It causes Austin to be voted one of the best places to live and creates this whole community of startups. You’re open. You’ve got many successes going on that people want to be around that energy. Our mutual friend, Billy Bross, who has also been a guest on the show, connected us. I was blown away. I thought, “If Tim is a sample of the quality of the people that are in Austin, no wonder this place is thriving.” One of the things I want to ask you about is your story of origin. One of the easiest ways to do it would be to have you described what you have on your wall, which in this photo montage of amazing moments from your life. Take us on the journey of some of those pictures that give us a little story of the origin of you.
It’s funny when we host dinner parties here, people usually have 1 of 2 reactions to the photos on the wall because it’s my life in fifteen pictures. Some people say, “That’s clever. It enriches all the stories that are shared.” Other people say, “You’re a raging narcissist.” It’s a matter of opinion, and we host a lot of dinner parties, so I get lots of feedback.
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It’s your house. If you’re not going to have pictures of yourself up, where are we going to do that?
I can’t wait for the opportunity to have you at our dinner. It’s going to be great. We’ve hosted 44 of those dinners and we’ve got people flying from all over North America to come to attend. It’s going to be fantastic to have you out to one of the dinners soon. I grew up in Canada. One of the pictures on the wall is of me riding a little tricycle with a little Canadian flag on it. It’s one of my favorite pictures of myself. It’s purity and innocence in that passion that we all have when we start. As I was growing up, I knew that I’d be an entrepreneur. Another picture of my wall is me in front of a painting truck because it was my first ever business when I was nineteen. I was also a varsity athlete and I loved the experience of competing when I was in college and whatnot.
Around that time is when I started my first ever business and I realized quickly that business is a little bit harder than expected. When you’re out there competing, you’re not just competing against your peers, but also people that have significantly more experience. I became an entrepreneur fairly quickly after university and I was broke. I had three roommates help me pay the rent. I had a home that I owned and I called it the Entrepreneur Academy. It was me and three other friends who all live there. I thought that I was going to be a millionaire by the time I was 25 or 30. I had big aspirations. I was a touring drummer at that time, which is another picture on the wall of me playing in a small arena. While we were on the road, I would also study real estate investing DVDs, how to acquire houses with no money down, and how to raise money?
I got a little bit of traction and I ended up getting four houses. I thought I was in great shape, so I thought that I would get rich and famous with rock and roll in real estate. In 2010, things changed. The crisis hit in ‘10, a little later in Canada than it did in the USA. I ended up losing $100,000, mostly of other people’s money, which was crushing. My residence went upside down by $100,000, so I was down at a couple of $100,000. I also had a mentor who ended up being 1 of the 2 leaders of a $12 million Ponzi scheme and his business partners convicted in court given a $250,000 fine, banned from Holding Securities for 25 years. His partner more or less, fled the country. It’s stressful and I ended up developing an illness because of the stress and exhaustion called Erythema Nodosum. For three months, I couldn’t walk.

Profit Factory: Businesses are a bit harder than expected. You’re out there competing not just against your peers, but also people who have significantly more experience.
I would have gotten double bankrupt in my business and my personal finance had I not had an amazing family to take care of me. My mom paid my mortgage for me for three months to cover me. I’m indebted to my parents for how they raised me and have given me so much stability that I could take risks outside of the home because I knew the home is always safe. There’s this moment in February of 2011 when I was laying in bed in month number two, where I felt the warmth go through my body and I felt some tingling like it never felt before. I heard a voice that said, “Tim, is this what you want?” At that moment, I don’t know if a second went by, a minute, or an hour, but time stood still. One of those pivotal moments in life. I heard another voice that was quiet and weak, but it was clear. It said, “Yes, entrepreneurship. Yes, this is what I want.”
John, at that moment, all these dominoes started to fall cascading realizations through my head, heart, and soul. I realized that I’ve been chasing fame and fortune when what I needed to be chasing were truth and mastery. Ever since then, I promised myself that I’m going to get a little bit better with entrepreneurship with every week that goes by. That’s been my mantra since the beginning of 2011. Here we are, every little bit has built on top of the one before. In my personal finance, I was able to pay everything off, which was great. My health is fantastic. I’m the healthiest I’ve been since I was a college athlete, which is fantastic. I don’t know if many people in their late 30s can see that. I’m proud of that. Not that it’s a comparison game, but it’s what I want, and I’m proud and fulfilled by that.
I’ve helped save multiple companies from bankruptcy and my own company. We’ve got two companies. One of which, I do consulting to entrepreneurs. I’ve sat on 139 different board meetings. I’ve looked at their financials and helped 70 companies, which has been fulfilling. Every day, there is such a precious opportunity to learn new things. I find fame and fortune interesting. It’s like a cat. If you go after it, it runs away but if you sit quietly and you focus on doing your work one step in front of the other, it’ll come and jump on your lap. I remember the shock that I had one day in Dallas. I was invited to speak in Dallas for a group of entrepreneurs and I’ve never given this particular talk before. The night before the presentation, I spent fifteen hours practicing in the condo that I’d rented.
You could go back to my Facebook feed. If you went far enough back, you would see this post that says, “Forbes Inc. and Entrepreneur Magazine had better all be in the audience tomorrow because I spent fifteen hours preparing this presentation and I’m bringing the heat.” I say that. There’s a picture of this dark room with a single pendant light. It almost looks like an interrogation room, illuminating this laptop at the end of a long night of working. I was astounded the next day to give the presentation. There are probably 150 entrepreneurs in the room. I got this wonderful ovation and about 30 people came up to shake my hand at the end, I’m busy shaking hands.
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The second last person extends their right hand to shake mine and extends their left hand with the business card in it. On the business card, it said, “Forbes Entrepreneurship Editor.” Forbes is there and asked me to be a regular contributor to Forbes. That was one of those unbelievable moments that I was joking when I made that statement on Facebook the night before, and here they are. It’s been an incredible journey. The more I know, the more I don’t know and I’m constantly reminded of that and do my best to help everyone that I can along the way.
First of all, I’m going to tweet out, “Fame and fortune are like a cat. Let it come to you and jump on your lap.” It’s great. Arthur Ashe, the famous tennis pro, said, “The key to success is confidence. The key to confidence is preparation.” When I gave my TEDx Talk, it was about twelve minutes and they said, “You should practice an hour for every minute you’re speaking.” Most people go, “I’m not going to practice that much.” Clearly, you practiced fifteen hours for a talk, and you should be able to start it in the middle and start at the end. You know it well that you’re no longer having to think.
Like an actor does when they get on stage or in front of a camera to do a movie, they’re not wondering what the next line is. It’s in them so they can be completely present. In this case, as a speaker, we do that with our audience, whether it’s in person or via Zoom calls. You also said something about truth and mastery, which is something that you’ve learned from all of this experience and journey you’ve been on. What can people do to figure that out? Maybe if you explain a little bit about what you mean by truth and mastery, and then how someone can figure out how that could apply to their life as a takeaway?
Maybe a couple of quick points on that is I’d read a book it’s called Millionaire Fastlane. It’s a hype-y title, but it had an incredible perspective and it talked about, in our lives, we can be producers or we can be consumers. If you look at your life through the lens of consumption, it’s like, “I want to buy that purse and that trip.” The production mindset is more of, “What could I create? How can I help?” One time, I was listening to some Jim Rohn. What a classic guy that he is. He’s both a brilliant mind and a poet. Jim Rohn said something like, “If a farmer walks to a field and yells at the field, give me food because I need it, the field will look back and say, who is this clown? I’m not interested in your need, but I’m interested in your seed.”
If we’re ready to show up and sow seeds of knowledge, effort, passion, and contribution, then all of our needs will be taken care of. If we’re in a dire situation or in a crisis environment, there are some exceptions there. There was a point when I was a couple of $100,000 upside down and I had no way to work because I couldn’t walk, stand, and even use my hands to type because the swelling in my elbows was painful. As soon as I could start to move my elbows again and sit up, I started studying like, “How do I get better at marketing?” Maybe I can’t go to meet clients. Keep in mind that this was many years ago, things were not as online as they are now. It was the next single thing that I could do that would tell the universe that I’m ready to take on more, receive more abundance, and be a steward of the gifts that are handed to me in the future because I’m being a steward of the gifts that I have right now.
I interviewed Rob Angel, the creator of the game Pictionary. He tells the story of how he created the game by saying, “What’s the one easy first step I can do to create a word list?” He took a piece of paper, pen, and dictionary, opened it up, and wrote down the word Aardvark. That became his whole metaphor. “What is your Aardvark?” It’s fantastic. You have done the same thing. This is what I love hosting the show because I get to connect the dots, lessons learned from different guests, and then introduce the guests to each other on top of it and say, “Do you want to hear Tim’s aardvark story?” His version of that was when he said, “What’s the one simple thing I can do as I’m getting well to start to get out of debt?” It was, “Start to learn and start to figure out what my seeds are.” I invite all the readers to think to themselves what they might feel overwhelmed from one thing or another, whether it’s a debt or a situation in their career issues. What’s the one thing I can do to start being a creator and not a consumer? It would be my takeaway there.
I’ve been hyped up, John, to study the ultra domination method so that I can retire in 60 seconds. When you’ve got no money and you’ve got little to work with, you realize, “I can’t operate in the land of one day, someday, wishing, hoping, and praying.” It’s more like, “I’m standing in a kitchen. I can’t go to the grocery store. What can I make from the ingredients that are in my fridge and in the pantry?” I looked into my environment and it turned out that one of my friends was an entrepreneur and he had a business on the internet. I said, “How do these credit cards appear and give you money? Who are these people? How do they find you?” He said, “Google AdWords.” I started studying a book by Perry Marshall. After that, he said, “Great.”
I clearly have time because I don’t have much else going on. How can I take this new skill that I’m learning, Google AdWords? How can I apply that? I looked into my environment again and my dad had a company. I went to my dad and said, “Can I practice this thing I’m learning in your business?” He said, “Sure. Sounds good.” I can’t remember if I even asked him for any money. I wanted the experience. I got some success there. I looked in my environment and said, “Who else is around me and how can I help?” Piece by piece, even if it was a humble skill and a humble opportunity, instead of being above it or instead of thinking it wasn’t big enough, I took it. It created momentum, confidence, experience, and track record. Interestingly, opportunity comes almost like, you’ve heard that expression, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” At the same time, when the entrepreneur is ready, sometimes the opportunity appears. It’s that classic story of, 74% of millionaires are broke or worse off within five years of winning the lottery.
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They don’t know how to manage it.
I call it The Seven Pillars, Skillset, Mindset, Coaching, Community, Tools, Strategy, and Environment. The cup was only big, if $1 million got poured into maybe a $100,000 to air mindset or a $50,000 to air mindset, the water spills out and the money’s gone.
It’s almost like a comfort zone. We don’t have the consciousness to be a millionaire. It’s comfortable. That’s why for some guys, it’s hard to make more money than their dad if they have that belief that they can never do it.
I love to give credit where credit is due, but someone said that “Our content cannot exceed our context.”

Profit Factory: If we’re ready to show up and sow seeds of knowledge, effort, passion, and contribution, then all of our needs will be taken care of.
This is the story of the Profit Factory. It’s what you’re telling us. The story of the origin of how you decided to help be of service. You saw a big problem that entrepreneurs were completely consumed with being busy all the time and not focused on profit, sounds like.
Coming out of my illness, I had a small internet marketing agency because it was the next skill on my path of mastery to becoming an entrepreneur. What I realized from doing it for a number of people, everything from websites to online advertising or whatnot, I was better at the operations of marketing than the actual creativity of marketing or inventing crazy new exciting headlines or campaigns. My friends and clients are asking me more for help on, how do I create nice SOPs or an onboarding process for team members?
For those reading, is SOP Standard Operating Procedure?
A checklist or something, yep Operations came effortlessly to me. I almost couldn’t believe that people didn’t know how to do it, but it isn’t the truth. Our greatest strengths sometimes are six inches in front of our nose and we don’t appreciate it because it’s not hard. We think it’s got to be hard to be a skill.
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It’s not hard for us, but it’s hard for everybody else. That’s the big a-ha moment to figure out, “This might be something that’s my genius.” You have something called the Blueprints, correct?
Yes. We’ve got a Cash and Clarity Blueprint. What that is, I looked at my process. On my journey of mastery, which I’ll be until the day I die, I learned a lot about marketing, operations, finance, and about selling as well. I can’t forget that. This gets back to truth and mastery. I realized that because I hated math, and accounting, I would avoid my bookkeeper’s emails, and would never answer the phone when my accountant called. All of that, that’s like trying to run a business. Imagine you’re getting onto a plane, John. Let’s say that there are 250 people on this plane. It’s a big Boeing commercial plane. You walk on, everyone’s turning to the right to find their seat and then you turn left. You walked into the cockpit because that’s where your seat is. You’re the pilot of this thing. Imagine looking at all the dials and saying, “What is all this?”
The people on the plane could be your employees, clients, and audience. If we as the leaders don’t know how to understand the dials or worse, we say, “I don’t like that,” and then we close the door as if it doesn’t exist. I spent four years and around $100,000, crisscrossing the continent, attending different workshops, seminars, including night school at the University of Alberta, to learn about how to lead by the numbers. There are parts of it, John, I hated every single second of it but one of the biggest things I learned was that 98% of accounting, we do not need to know. We can leave that to our accountants. There’s only about 1% or 2% that we need to know. That’s what inspired me to create a three-day workshop called Know Your Numbers and then inside of that, especially given the 2020 pandemic, I created this clarity and cash roadmap.
What that roadmap does is it helps any entrepreneur, who for any reason, is in a cash crunch. Whether it is because of some global event like a pandemic or whether it’s a new competitor in town or struggling with a new business to get it off the ground. You can use that clarity and cash roadmap to make sure that you don’t run out of money and you can get out of a sense of panic, splashing around in the water, trying to keep your head above the air. Let’s give you an edge of the pool that you can hold on to that allows you to reallocate your energy from survival to evaluation. You can say, “I can be calm for a second. What’s in my environment? What opportunities are here? What threats are in my environment? What do I need to avoid?” Now that I can be a little calmer, I can get clear on what I need to do. I’m confident in my next steps, which allows me to get back to being creative, to create new opportunities.

Profit Factory: Entrepreneurs do not need to know 98% of their accounting. They can leave that to their accountants.
You’re such a good storyteller. I want to point out to the readers so that they can become better storytellers. When you describe turning left instead of right because that’s your job, you’re the pilot and then deciding, you don’t even want to go into the cockpit and that’s how some people run their business, they don’t even want to look at their numbers, it’s a great analogy. When you also describe the sense of feeling like you’re drowning and you need a minute to hold on to the edge of the pool and get your bearings, it’s another great analogy.
I don’t even know if you’re consciously doing it or not, but you’re doing it and that’s what makes you such a great speaker. For anybody reading to say, “How can I become more persuasive or better at pitching anything?” Storytelling is the whole premise of why I’ve created this show. When a guest like you shows it, it’s my job to underline it, circle it, highlight it, and double click on it, whatever you want to say, so that people go, “I heard somebody do it twice naturally. What can I do to start doing that?” We’re clear on who you help and what problem you solve, which in my definition is what a great pitch is.
We’re clear that you’re helping people who are struggling with areas they don’t want to do. What happens if they don’t fix these problem courses, business goes underwater. When you get to know your numbers, you are free and confident and once you’re confident, back to the Arthur Ashe example, that’s when the creativity comes back. That’s what caused you to start your business in the first place. Speaking of creativity, here’s my transition statement. How did you come up with the idea to start Great Assistant and not Okay Assistant or some so-so Assistant?
Thank you for your kind words about my ability to tell stories. It means a lot coming from you. You’re the pro. I feel knighted. I feel like there’s a knight’s sword. It’s not enough, I’m creating another story by creating that analogy. In the process of providing consulting to entrepreneurs on operations and finance and these are the backstage of business. I don’t teach, coach or consult on the front stage of business. I don’t help with marketing and selling. There are other experts who can help us with that. Being the backstage guy also means I end up in the back rooms and boardrooms. I see what’s going on. I’ve been privy to see a ton. I’ve worked with dozens of clients. One thing I realized over and over again was that entrepreneurs were too often stuck in the minutiae of their business.
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It was almost like if you imagine crabs in a bucket, it’s the entrepreneur would start getting some traction where they’re starting to climb up and they’re getting more clients. They’re feeling excited. The other crabs are not other people, but it’s getting dragged down by your email inbox or by maintaining a website, plugins, by having to deal with invoicing, administration paperwork, or something. The entrepreneurs like, “They can see the top rim of the bucket and they know that there’s a big world out there at the next level, and they keep getting drugged down.” When I saw that the first couple of times, I was like, “That’s interesting.” Along the way, I had tried hiring assistance overseas. It was a total train wreck for me and I tried many different countries and many different pay rates.
What I finally decided was I needed to bear down and I needed to get my own North American based virtual assistant. I was someone coming out of corporate or professional America who was looking to work from home. I went on a website called HireMyMom.com, which is a fun name, and I ended up hiring someone by the name of Sarah. She was a paralegal leaving the legal field because she wanted to be home with her kids and her husband. She ended up being my greatest assistant for six years. This happened before I ever realized that it was a common issue. In the twelve months before getting my great assistant, I made $39,000. In the twelve months after getting my assistant, I made $107,000.
That’s the ultimate outcome of a story. If you read nothing else and you were thinking of, “Can I afford it?” The real question becomes, “Can you afford not to have a Great Assistant?” If you’re okay overworking yourself and getting caught up in the minutiae, Godspeed and God bless. If you want to double, maybe even triple your income and get back to the creativity and your sweet spot, your genius, if you will, then Great Assistant can be your solution. Since you’re not the crab being pulled back into the bucket. There’s your elevator pitch. That’s how you explain, everybody, who you help? What problem you solve, and what life is like after that problem is solved?
That’s the resolution that most stories don’t have and we’ve known Tim’s resolution. Remember, if you’re pitching to an investor or you’re a salesperson pitching to win a new client, the better you describe the problem and show empathy for the problem. In Tim’s case, he has complete empathy because he himself experienced the problem. Much like when I was coaching Olympus Medical, I said to those salespeople, “I’ve been in your shoes. I know what it’s like to have a quota. I know what it’s like to compete on price by the pressure that is. I understand your challenges.” They went, “You get us.”
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When people say, “You get us,” they’re pulled in. In this case, “Tim gets us. He knows what it’s like to be an entrepreneur and get stuck in the details. He was stuck. He figured out a way to not only fix it for himself but he’s now got this huge, great team of North American based assistance that is going to help me be productive. On top of that, he can also help me be more profitable. Please, what is his number? I need to get him on speed dial.” That’s a great lesson. You also mentioned to me before that you might have a free gift for the readers, but before we get to that and how people can find you, follow you, and all that good stuff, is there any last thought, quote or book you want to recommend?
Thank you for the opportunity to bring the final thought to the table here. It goes all the way back to when I was recovering in bed. After I had that epiphany moment, I saw a quote and it said, “Hell is meeting the man I could have been.” I resonate with that still to this day. When it’s like, “I don’t feel like working out now.” If I asked myself, “What would it be like to meet the Tim that did work out? I don’t feel like learning this skill. What would it feel like if I met Tim that did learn the skill?” The idea of opportunity cost is something that entrepreneurs rarely think about, even human beings. We often don’t think about it. We think about the immediate pain or pleasure, which is natural.
That’s how we’re wired. Oftentimes, we’re not thinking about the other side of the coin, which is, “What is the opportunity cost? What am I giving up to do this? What am I not getting?” To your point on, let’s say, a micro level, for the entrepreneur, what does it cost me to not get an assistant? At a macro level, what does it cost you in your life if you’re not taking advantage of every single day? I get it that we all have challenges and frustrations, and some days are better than others. I encourage everyone to acknowledge the gifts you do have rather than the gifts you don’t have, and how can you combine those for maximum effect so that tomorrow is a little better than now.
What a great place to end. Focus on what you do have instead of what you don’t have. Tim, what is the free gift you have for everybody?
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If anyone’s feeling any crunch financially or even if you’re not, but if you want to get some clarity around where you’re at financially, we’ve got this great training. It’s called Navigate the Cash Crunch. It’s at NavigateTheCashCrunch.com. There’s a simple and complimentary 90-minute training there. In that training, you’ll learn The Clarity and Cash Blueprint. It’s the three-point plan to be able to make it through any cash crunch, whether it’s due to a global pandemic or some miss targets in business or whatnot. It is the edge of the pool that we can hold on to buy ourselves a few breaths of air and the buyer ourselves some time to be able to reposition ourselves and make sure that we’re clear, calm, and confident when we get back to being creative.
The company name is GreatAssistant.com or ProfitFactory.com. If people want to follow you on social media, what’s the handle?
On Instagram, it’s @RealTimFrancis. I thought FakeTimFrancis would be far funnier, but it would not be well suited for situations like this. On Facebook, it’s Facebook.com/ModernBusinessOwner. It’s the full name and you’ll see I’m in a tuxedo, feeling sharp in all my pictures.
You’re the James Bond of entrepreneurship. You have your teams on coming. I’m sure. Tim, I can’t thank you enough for being a great guest and sharing with us a vision of the person we want to be versus the person that will show up if we rely on what feels good in the moment.
Thank you.
Important Links
- Profit Factory
- Great Assistant
- Billy Bross – Past episode
- TEDx Talk – Be The Lifeguard of Your Own Life!
- Millionaire Fastlane
- Google AdWords
- Know Your Numbers
- HireMyMom.com
- NavigateTheCashCrunch.com
- @RealTimFrancis – Instagram
- Facebook.com/ModernBusinessOwner
- Better Selling Through Storytelling Method Online Course
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