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John Livesay:
Today’s guest on The Successful Pitch podcast is Sam Horn who is known as an Intrigue Expert. She’s the author of Got Your Attention?:How to Create Intrigue and Connect with Anyone. She speaks all over the world about how to get your message memorable with incredible stories that come to life. She said don’t tell someone what your story is, ask them something, like, ‘did you know?’ and once you get people to start thinking about facts and things they didn’t already know, you have them imagine it and from there you don’t have to imagine it anymore, it comes to life.

Sam has so many great tips and skills, she literally walks me through my own idea for a blog and makes it so much better than what I had originally done and so you’re going to be able to listen to her walk me through her step by step process of how to make something so engaging and so memorable that you feel like you’re in the room with the person telling the story. Enjoy the interview.

Hi and welcome to today’s episode of The Successful Pitch podcast. We are honored to have Sam Horn as our guest. Sam has an amazing and interesting background. She is literally the Intrigue Expert, just the title alone makes you want to know more, doesn’t it? She’s a world renowned author of six books, a key note speaker including TEDx, she’s the president of the Intrigue Agency and she’s spoken to more than half a million people worldwide, so she not only travels, but people seek her out. She has a new book out called Got Your Attention?, so that is something we’re going to talk to her about. Sam, welcome to the show.

Sam Horn:
Thanks so much. I’ve been looking forward to sharing some ideas with your listeners.

John:
Terrific. Well, you have been a pitch coach for several companies. One of the things I wanted to jump right into was talking about you being a pitch coach for the British Airways face-to-face competition. People love to hear about pitch competitions and you certainly are a pitch coach, so can you tell us a little bit about that story?

Sam:
You bet. In fact, you may know, two of the people who are the number one and number two winners in this, number one was Adam Braun of Pencils of Promise, are you familiar with Adam?

John:
I am, he’s got an amazing charity.

Sam:
He certainty has and in fact, he’s got a great story, which is one of the things we’ll be talking about today is that how we can weave our story in in very concise and compelling and relevant ways so people can relate to our message and the runner up and a very close call was Danae Ringelmann of Indiegogo, I bet you know her as well.

John:
Indeed. I love it.

Sam:
So, one of the things that Danae has going for her, of course, she is really somebody who has revolutionized crowdfunding and she was really at the beginning of that movement and when you’re first to market, you own the market, so that’s one of the things we can talk about as well when we’re trying to pitch something and get a yes to what we care about.

John:
Well, that’s already a tweetables moment. When you’re first to market, you own the market. My favorite example of that is Uber versus Lyft. Do you have any thoughts on that?

Sam:
You know, I love it,because in my new book, Got Your Attention?, I used Uber as an example of who says there’s nothing new under the sun. Of course there are new things under the sun and I talk about my seven Ps of positioning and what they realized I that there was a problem that wasn’t being met, you know, people are standing out in the middle of the street, they can’t get a cab, the cabs are smelly, sometimes they over charge, you know, all that.

The premise is, why does it have to be that way? What if there were a better way and then you come up with a program or project that offers that better way. You make a promise so that people can trust your new venture and then you pop and bingo, you can be first to market and as you just said, when you’re first to market, you own that market.

John:
Well, you’re certainly the expert on so many things one of them being Pop Its, since that was you actually gave a Pop Talk recently. Can you tell us a little bit more about what you mean by Pop It?

Sam:
You bet. It’s – I think you may know I help start and run the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years and we did something that was unprecedented at the time. We gave people an opportunity to jump the chain of command and pitch face-to-face with decision makers. I mean, you could pitch your screen plan to Ron Howard.

John:
Wow.

Sam:
Guess what, no one knew how to connect with these decision makers. Blah, blah, blah, they’d talk themselves out of a deal. So, I realized that if we’ve got 60 seconds or if we’ve got two minutes, we’ve got to pop it so it pops out of the pack so that it is different than what they’ve heard before and it gets their eyebrows up.

John:
Ah, yes. You talk about that phrase a lot and it’s so interesting because when someone raises their eyebrows, whether it’s Spock or somebody being intrigued by what you just said, you literally have an eyebrow test that you ask people to make sure that their pitch passes, can you explain it to our listeners what you mean by the eyebrow test?

Sam:
You’re right. Well, here’s the back story toward it, is that I stood in the back and I watched those pitch sessions at Maui Writers Conference and I could predict who was getting interest in their project without hearing a word being said and it was because of the decision maker’s eyebrows. Now, right now, people listening to this crunch up your eyebrows, nit and furrow. Do you feel confused?

John:
Yes.

Sam:
Confused people don’t say yes. Okay, now just leave your eyebrows unmoved, you’re unmoved or you’ve had botox. Now, lift your eyebrows. See, now do you feel curious, intrigued? You wanna know more?

John:
Yes.

Sam:
Means we just got our ideas in your mental door, so that’s what we want from now and the first 60 seconds, we want those eyebrows up, it means they’re intrigued, they want to know more.

John:
I love that image of, we got you in their mental door. That’s something we’re going to tweet out from today’s show, definitely. Sam, you have a great story on a recent blog you wrote about a woman, Kathleen, who was pitching from Springboard her big idea and she only had a few minutes to get those eyebrows raised, would you tell us that story of how you work with Springboard, what that is and how you got her to make her pitch so successful at the end of the day when everyone is exhausted?

Sam:
Well, first let’s give a shout out to Springboard. Springboard has helped entrepreneurs get 6.6 billion in funding so this is Gale Goodman of Gail Goodman of Constant Contact. This is Robin Chase from Zipcar and Kathleen Callender of PharmaJet is part of the Springboard alumni and she said, Sam, I’ve got good news, I’ve got bad news. I said, what’s the good news and she said I’m speaking to a room full of investors in New York. I said, that’s great.

I said, what’s the bad news? She said, I’m going at 2:30 in the afternoon and I only have 10 minutes and she said, you can’t say anything in 10 minutes, how can I explain my business model? My financials? My competitive edge or team credentials and I said, Kathleen, you don’t have 10 minutes, you’re going at 2:30, you’ve got 60 seconds.

So, here’s the 60 second opening we came up with and then I’m going to share with the listeners how they can use this opening whether they’re coming up with a homepage for their website, whether they’re coming up with an opening paragraph for their blog, whether they’re opening up their TED talk or fund raising pitch, sound good?

John:
Sounds amazing. Can’t wait.

Sam:
Okay, here’s the opening. Did you know there are 1.8 billion vaccinations given every year? Did you know up to half of those are given with re-used needles? Did you know we are spreading and perpetuating the very diseases we’re trying to prevent? Imagine if there were painless one use needle for a fraction of the current cost. You don’t have to imagine it, we’ve created it and she’s off and running. Are your eyebrows up, John?

John:
Not only up, but I’m leaning forward. I’m intrigued, I want to know more. You got my head spinning with knowledge and it’s such a great framework. It’s absolutely so valuable what you said. Not only when you have a pitch, but a blog or a website, it’s ‘did you know’, ‘imagine’, and then that beautiful bridge you created and I’m so impressed with that bridge, because that’s lacking so often is this transition statement of you don’t have to imagine, which is just brilliant, Sam.

Sam:
Well, thank you and now let’s think about everybody listening. What is the situation? A high stakes communication coming up where you are pitching for funding, you are asking for a yes, you do want this project green lighted, you do want someone to buy this product. Have you been told to tell them what you’re going to tell them and then tell them and then tell them what you told them. That’s terrible advice! That’s makes us a bore, chore, or snore, right? Hey, shall we tweet that out, John?

John:
Yes, bore, chore, or snore. I love it. I love things that rhythm and I love alliterations. So, let’s not bore, chore, or snore. I love it. Great tweet.

Sam:
That’s right. So, from now on, instead of telling, ask, and like you said, three ‘did you know’ questions that go to the issue that you’re answering or the problem that you’re solving or shift in a trend that you are address and now if people are thinking, where do I find these startling statistics? You just GTS. Now, if we’re a boomer, that’s Google That Stuff, we’re a millennial that’s, Google That…yes. Just put in what are startling statistics about blank, now put in your industry, put in your product, put in your profession, and I guarantee you, in seconds up will come something, you don’t know and you’re an expert and that’s the goal! If it gets your eyebrows up, it’ll get your decision makers’ eyebrows up. Now you’ve turned it into a dialogue instead of a monologue. You’re only 20 seconds in.

John:
Fantastic.

Sam:
Now, that second step, should I stop for a second? It looks like you have something to say?

John:
No, I just love the GTS. I mean, we all heard of a global positioning system and you shifted that to a GTS, which we’re going to tweet that out. The old way of learning how to write a screenplay is show, don’t tell, and you taking it one step further with ask, don’t tell, so it’s just so incredible. I had to take a pause and recap just what you gave us there, before you go on to the second step.

Sam:
Well, I see that you’re getting this and I really appreciate that you appreciate the craft, because this is what we’re doing. If the clock starts ticking, the second we start talking, then every word, as William Strunk says, has to tell, right?

John:
Yes.

Sam:
But let’s not tell, let’s ask, because now we’re engaging instead of boring or snoring or choring. So, the second stage in this opening is the word imagine, because the word imagine pulls people out of their occupation. See, they’re not texting, they’re not checking email, they’re picturing your point. They’re seeing what you’re saying, so they’re completely engaged.

Now, link the word imagine to three aspects of your answer to that issue or your product that solves that problem. Think back to Kathleen Callender. Do you know how she used to start her pitch? How she used to describe what PharmaJet was?

John:
I can’t imagine. I’m sure it’s something very techy about dirty needles and something like that, maybe, right?

Sam:
Even if it were that visual, it used to be that PharmaJet was a medical delivery device for subcutaneous inoculations.

John:
Oh my God. I’m snoring, confused, and slightly bored. Wow.

Sam:
See, you focus on investors, investors don’t say yes when they’re confused, do they?

John:
No, nobody does and most people are so embarrassed to say they’re confused, so they just give you a no and they don’t want to raise their hand and go, could you clarify that. So, it’s so important when people pitch to give people clarity and you have such an incredible focus. If anybody doesn’t buy your book, Got You Attention and use that as their Bible, they’re crazy. So, now that we’ve got the imagine and the three aspects that solve the problem that you created with ‘did you know’ questions, is there anymore you want to talk about the imagine?

Sam:
Now, notice how we distill this – your proposal, your pitch, into one succinct sentence. Think about Kathleen Callender and what did her decision makers care about. Well, they cared about those re-used needles, so we made it one use. They cared about those painful inoculations, so we made it painless and, of course, all decision makers care about money, so we condense it into a fraction of the current cost. I mean, we distilled this into one, ‘who wouldn’t want that’ sentence and that’s the goal of this second part.

Imagine this, this, this, and everyone is thinking, that sounds good, who wouldn’t want that? And then you bridge into you don’t have to imagine it, we’ve created it, now is where you come in with your precedence and your evidence to prove that this isn’t speculative, this isn’t pie in the sky, this is a done deal and you’re ready to deliver it or here’s the benchmark where this had been done before successfully or here’s the testimonials, the article, coming in with proof, so they may, you know, what you have painted sounds so wonderful, you want to come in with gravitas and creditability so they and you can take it to the bank.

John:
Nice, that gravitas is a great word to explain how centered and confidence and focus you have to be when you’re closing up that short, short pitch, which is not only do you see the problem and see my solution, but I’m the person to bring that solution home.

Sam:
That’s right. That’s right. In fact, Jack Welch said, if you don’t have a competitive edge, don’t compete.

John:
Right. What’s the one thing that makes you special and everyone has something, which leads me to my first question that I normally ask guests, but I was so excited about your content and your genius, I skipped over it almost on purpose, because I couldn’t wait to get to the good stuff, but can you tell us a little bit about your story? How did you become an Intrigue Expert?

Sam:
It really went back to those beginning days of the Maui Writers Conference, because what we did, I mean, you’re an author, you know what it is to just jump all those chains of command. I mean, 20 years ago, you go your whole life, you would never meet and agent face-to-face. You would never meet one of the top editors at Random House, Simon & Schuster, you know, Doubleday to pitch Neil Niren, whose clients are Tom Clancy, you know, to pitch Rob Loomis, whose clients are Maya Angelou, Woody Allen, to pitch Rob, you know, Ron Howard, it’s just incredible and I could not believe that, A) people even hadn’t done their homework, you know, they walked in cold, winging it, which is like here’s their dream on the line, right, and instead their dream goes down the drain, because they didn’t prepare for it or here’s the other side to that, John, they did prepare and what happens and I see it in so many pitch competitions, is they prepare their pitch to death, literally to death.

It is so rehearsed, it is so mechanical, they don’t connect with people in the room and I’ve see top decision makers, they’re so quick, they get it in like 60 seconds and guess what, they want to ask a question and the other person doesn’t stop talking for 10 minutes.

John:
Yes, because if you over rehearse or as you described it, it doesn’t allow for any questions, because I’ll lose my place and you really don’t know the material you just memorized what it is without the content so that you can pivot even during your pitch, which is what I think is so important to do. If you’re going to show how you are able to pivot possibly during the business, you need to be able to show how you can pivot during a pitch, don’t you think?

Sam:
I love it, in fact, okay, you love quotes, you ready for a good one?

John:
I do. Yes.

Sam:
Amy Poehler, okay, so let’s get Amy Poehler in mind, right, Amy Poehler says, I’ll get a little itchy if I don’t have some control.

John:
Nice.

Sam:
Now, think about it. What happens in a pitch is that we’re dealing with senior investors, decision makers, executives, they’re used to being in control and guess what happens, someone comes in and starts talking for ten minutes and like 60 seconds in, the person has got it and at that point, we have to put a sock in it, because if we put a sock in it, then the decision maker can say, well, you know, what’s your background, have you ever taken anything to exit? You know, it’s like, do you have a patent on this? You know, tell me about your team? Then they run with it, they’re in control, they’re going to like it a lot better, because they’re making the conversation relevant to them and they’re in the driver seat instead of being held hostage, right?

John:
Instead of being held hostage, yes. It’s so true, because some people are so afraid of questions or objections even and I tell people to welcome them, because it shows that the investor is engaged and once they’re engaged, they’re telling you want their criteria is and either you have a fit or you don’t. You might as well learn it upfront if you’re a fit or not.

Sam:
Once again, you love quotes, so write this one down, okay?

John:
Yes.

Sam:
Objections are answers to the test.

John:
Ah, yes.

Sam:
They just told you why they’re going to say no and, if we can welcome that as you just said, the sign of a true leader, a confident executive, business owner, is a someone who welcomes the objections, because you just told me why you wouldn’t buy this, what your concern is, what you think it might be its fatal flaw. Now, if I can welcome that and answer it, then check, that’s no longer an objection, we’re closer to a yes.

John:
Yes, we’re going to tweet that. Objections are the answer to the test. Let me you ask you about your 70/10/10/10 rule for being clear since you talked about how the confused mind always says no, you have some great insights on how to help us get clear with this great rule. Can you break that down for us?

Sam:
Well, first it’s to understand that, as we talk about in the latest book, that goldfish have longer attention spans than we do, right? I’m not making that up. Harvard research Nancy Cohen found that goldfish nine seconds, human beings eight seconds, and Newsweek had a cover article about infobesity. We’re living in an age of infobesity.

John:
I love that.

Sam:
And infobesity is essentially TMI, too much information, any time, all the time, right? So, people don’t want more information. They want to be intrigued and the 70/10/10/10 rule and unless people are driving, let’s go ahead and I’m a leadite here, so if you have paper and a pen, let’s do four columns, alright.

John:
Got it.

Sam:
So, four vertical columns. The top of the left hand column is 70, next column is 10, next column is 10, next column is 10. From now on start with 70, do not start with infobesity, start with an anecdote. You know, an anecdote and I don’t say story and I don’t say example, I say an anecdote, because anecdote is a real life example pulled from your life, alright. Next, say when we start with an anecdote, it’s always original, it’s always organic, it gets people’s eyebrows up, because it pleasantly surprises them.

Now, next column is for ‘ah ha’. We pull an ah-ha out of the anecdote, because now instead of the platitude or a cliche, we have a blog title, we have a chapter title or presentation, it’s going to pop, right, and by the way, let’s do this with you afterwards, okay.

John:
Okay, fun.

Sam:
And next column is ask, because I’ll always remember as an Olympic athlete came to Maui Writers Conference, he talked about training for the Olympics, he chocked, he didn’t even finish up on the middle stand. He gave up the sport, couldn’t live with himself, came back, and got a medal, and I looked around and I could see people were politely applauding, but you know what, I could tell what they were thinking, well, good for you, but what’s that got to do with me?

Because since, never once did he ask three you questions, never once did he say, have you ever had a dream that didn’t work out the way – did you throw in the towel? You know, how did you feel about that? See, you questions are the hook and hint of our idea and anecdote and ah-ha, back to the audience so they can relate it in real-time so it’s relevant for them.

John:
I love that image. You questions are the hinge on a door that let’s people in to the mental door you were talking about, right?

Sam:
You just said it, yep, and then the final one is act and act is where we get prescriptive and that’s where we give a how to, that’s where we give the next step. This is how you can put it into practice, this is how you can get real world results and now look at this 70/10/10/10, it changes both the order and the Proportion of our communication.

John:
Wow, let me just recap it to make sure my notes and my columns are right. The 70 is the anecdote, then it is the ah-ha moment, then it is ask, and then finally, act.

Sam:
That’s right.

John:
Get it? Okay, great.

Sam:
Guess what people usually do exactly the oppose. It’s either all how-tos, do this, do this, and we feel like we’re being lectured or scolded that we’re back in class, right, or they tell stories and hey, stories are nice, but at the end it’s like, what’s that got to do with me, you know, how can I apply that in my life, you know, or they share platitudes, it’s all about the team, you know?

John:
The cliches, yeah.

Sam:
That’s exactly right, so this really does turn infobesity on its head.

John:
That’s another tweetable line. I love it. Turn infobesity on its head. Hire Sam, that’s great. Alright, let’s see if I can pull the 70/10/10/10 to work for the listeners and give them some kind of an example of how that would be.

Sam:
Okay, so can we set this up?

John:
Please.

Sam:
Okay. Now, is there a blog that you want to write or are you giving a presentation and in the near future or something?

John:
Yes. I am working on a blog right now.

Sam:
It sounds to me like you already have the ah-ha or the point that you want to make, right?

John:
Yes. I do.

Sam:
So, now, put that in column two, because see, sometimes we start, we know the point or we know the topic, but we’re going to write about leadership or we’re going to write about pitching, so see that’s a platitude cliche generic, right, but we start there. Okay, so let’s narrow it down. What is the topic or the subject or the point you want to make?

John:
You want me to tell you now?

Sam:
Umhm.

John:
How to become the Picasso of pitches.

Sam:
Ooh. Well done. Well done.

John:
Thank you.

Sam:
You got that alliteration going on, don’t you?

John:
Yes, I do.

Sam:
Okay, so now, good, you already have a good ah-ha, but now let’s go over to the anecdote, right?

John:
Yes, right.

Sam:
And the anecdote is either like your back story of how you discovered this or, you know, a good place to start, the opposite of this. When you experienced, you know, when it was not art. When it was not creative, when it was common, okay.

John:
Got it. Right.

Sam:
So, put in a scene now. I want to be sitting there, standing there right with you. Ready go.

John:
Francoise Gilot, who was Paloma Picasso’s mother told me this story of when she was painting her art during the war in the 40s, there was a shortage of canvases and they had to paint over their master pieces, because she had such a need to express her creativity and she was looking at a painting and she said, that’s the 5th one I did, my favorite was the third one underneath it and I thought to myself, oh my God, if we could pitch like Picasso or Francoise Gilot, then our need to express ourselves is so great that we would paint over our master pieces and could learn to pivot when we need to, we would really be successful.

Sam:
Wow. Okay, this is a fantastic start. Now, let’s, I’m going to show you how to wave an anecdote so it comes alive, sound good?

John:
Sounds great.

Sam:
WWWAVE.

John:
Yep.

Sam:
Okay, so the W is Who, now please verbally paint her so I can see her.

John:
Got it. Francoise Gilot is 90 years old, but she is still beautiful. In fact, both Picasso and Maltese were so inspired by her beauty, they created art interpreting her looks.

Sam:
Wow. Say something about the light on in her eyes. The light in her face, because I bet that was..

John:
She observes the world with such curiosity and passion that you can’t help but be intrigued by listening to her speak to you with an English, with her French accent.

Sam:
Wow, okay now if we had more time, see you just went a layer deeper and you see how rich it was and evocative and it was really colorful. So, see, you would paint your lead character in a way that not only we can see and we can feel them and they call it care-acter for a reason that we care about them, right?

John:
Nice, I love that. Care-acter. I’ve never heard that before, great. I live in Hollywood for God sakes with all the screenwriters, yes.

Sam:
Okay, the next is where and when. Screen writer, you know all about scene, right? So, see, if we just talk about her, we don’t know if you met her on a plane, we don’t know if we met her over lunch, we don’t know if we met her by the beach villa, so where and when did you have this conversation?

John:
I met her at her apartment five years ago when I was with the curator and author of the book about her life in her apartment, which was filled with not only her own work, but of course, Picasso’s, so it was completely intriguing and beautiful to be surrounded by the artwork that someone’s created through their life time as well as the person she was involved with for so many years.

Sam:
So see, this is the start of this anecdote is five years ago I had the unique privilege of having an opportunity to visit so and so in her villa, which was filled and now say these words, picture this.

John:
Picture this. Yes.

Sam:
Okay, we’re going to be in that room with you. Vicariously we’re experiencing what it’s like to be in that incredible place with this art on the walls, right?

John:
Right.

Sam:
Okay. Now, the third take, you’re a screenwriter, you know all about dialogue. Third W is What was said. Has to have coma quotes, right? I asked her, she said, I thought, because that’s when it comes alive, other wise a story i not a story, it’s distant, it’s removed, it’s only with dialogue that it comes alive and we feel as if we’re in that room having this conversation and it is as if it’s happening now.

John:
Wow. I love that. So, in this case I would say, she was showing me one of her paintings and she told me during the war in the 40s there was a shortage of canvases and she had to paint over them.

Sam:
And she said, not she told me, she said.

John:
And she said, got it, she had to paint over her paintings during the 1940s because there was a shortage of canvases and I asked her, “How did that feel to do that.” And she said, “It was hard to do, but I needed to express myself.” I ask her,”Which was her favorite of all the paintings that she had done on that one canvas and she said, “It was the third one underneath the fifth one.”

Sam:
Ooh, you see it, don’t you?

John:
I do.

Sam:
Okay, now do you see how this is one of a kind. When you do this, you’re 60 seconds in. Is everyone going to keep reading that blog? You bet. Is everyone going to keep listening to you? Has anyone ever told this story this way? No.

John:
No.

Sam:
And further more as a writer, both in verbal presentations and in writing, when you do dialogue, it’s line, space, line, space, right? So, you’re visually and verbally chunking up the content so that people are engaged in the interaction and it holds their attention, because it’s not like a paragraph of ten lines of dense text, right?

John:
Right.

Sam:
Okay, A is for Adversity and so we’re waving this anecdote so it comes alive. So, WWW. W is Who. W is Where and When, W is what was said, and of course, you know all about, you probably know Chris Vogler, huh?

John:
I know who it is, but I don’t know him.

Sam:
Okay, well, for people listening, Joesph Campbell, of course, has the Hero’s Journey and Christoper Vogler came to Maui Writers Conference for years. Kind of like Hollywood’s Christoper Vogler, Joseph Campbell, and you also know about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

John:
I love that, yeah. Self-actualization, you have to get your food and water set first, right?

Sam:
That’s right, but he also said that a satisfied need is no longer a motivator and he also said if you are down there in survival needs, you can not relate to self-actualization needs.

John:
Correct.

Sam:
So, see, if we’re pitching something and it seems like oh, that’s nice, but not necessary, I can’t meet payroll, well, yeah, I hear what you’re saying, but I’m going through a difficult divorce. It’s like, well, yeah, easy for you. So, the adversity in the story is either adversity from you or from her that makes this challenging where something went wrong because that’s what gives it an anecdote. That’s what makes it believable, that’s what makes it not airy fairy, you know, right. So, where’s the adversity in this story?

John:
The adversity in this story is the sadness that she had to paint over her favorite painting and it’ll never be seen again.

Sam:
There you go, write it down, because do you see how, if you say that and you move on, do you see how we just missed a moment?

John:
Yes.

Sam:
To give this depth, right, and humanity and scope of emotion. Yeah. It’s not pat or Pollyanna now, right? WWWAVE. So, now V is for Victory. This is the happy dance at the end of Star Wars. This is the epiphany, this is the insight, so what was your victory or what was your epiphany or the point of all this?

John:
The point of all this for me really was even though that painting will never be seen again, she remembers it in her mind and she had the passion to still keep creating and not hold on to one creation at the expense of creating something new.

Sam:
Wow. Write it down. I just thought one too. You know what, because you love alliteration and I also believe often in turning our ah-has into questions, because now they’re engaging, right, so you know what’s a very evocative line? Ha-ha! I love this. Do you know how Einstein knew he had a good idea?

John:
No.

Sam:
He laughed out loud.

John:
Awh, how great.

Sam:
So, see, if ever like a little laugh burst out of me, that kind of like, oh, get out of the way, good idea coming. You ready?

John:
Ready.

Sam:
Are you painting over your Picassos?

John:
Nice, great.

Sam:
So, and now you’re also seeing that one anecdote can yield several ah-has, right?

John:
Yes, definitely.

Sam:
Which means you can tell the story in different presentations with different points tailor, customized, to that audience or to that strategic purpose of the pitch or something.

John:
Right.

Sam:
Now, E. We’re on to WWWAVE. E is for Emotional context and now here is where you step out of the story and you talk about how you feel about it, you know, how grateful you were to have that opportunity, how you couldn’t stop thinking about it, how that night you just laid in bed going over and over in your mind, right?

John:
Yes.

Sam:
Or how you can’t wait to share that story with others so that they can vicariously experience and get their own epiphany from it or something, right?

John:
Right, yep, great. So, for me, when I look back on that day, I remember that I felt incredibly grateful to have met her, inspired by her incredible need to create and I was so excited to share it with startups to realize that is the kind of level of creativity and passion that’s required to continue to express yourself in the world regardless of what shortages you might be facing.

Sam:
Yes. It’s like. I tell you, we could talk to ten different people right now on that story and the best thing, well, I shouldn’t say the best, one of the many wonderful things about starting with an anecdote is that it’s very Socratic is that everyone listening is going to come up with their own insights, right? Because it will be relevant to them in different ways and so they really are engaged and so, like, just you and I back and forth, you know, there was this, are you painting over your Picassos?

If you are forced to, if you only have a few resources and you’re painting, whatever, it’s like how can you remember it, how can you imprint it so it’s not gone, it’s not lost, right? You know, who is your Picasso, who is your muse? You know, is the light going to be on in your eyes when you’re 90, you know? It’s the gift that keeps on giving, isn’t it?

John:
Love it, love it, love it. Oh my gosh, this has been so incredible. You’ve been so generous with not only giving your insights to the audience, but letting me play with you and take what your concepts are and make them come to life not only me, but everyone listening, because these real life examples of your acronyms are gold, needless to say. You have written, speaking of being prolific like Picasso and Francoise Gilot, not only Got Your Attention?, but six other books. Tell us what are some of the books that other people should be getting of your six in addition to Got Your Attention? that you think could really help them with their pitches and their life?

Sam:
Well, thank you for asking and let’s go with two and the first one is Pop! And I was very honored when Seth Godin essentially said, well he said on the cover endorsement, “This book is revolutionary.” He said, “Words matter and this will change the way you use them.” And so, shall I give a quick example of Pop!?

John:
Please, yes.

Sam:
Okay, so this top of mine, so I’m going with it here, because we’re talking about pitches and Pop also can help you come up with taglines or it can help you come up with book titles or whatever, so he’s just an example of how to do it. The first time I spoke on conflict, it was called dealing with difficult people without becoming one yourself. That’s, it’s got alliteration, it’s got cadence, right? And when you put it in a beat, you make it easy to repeat. Guess what though, is that i a generic title, because if you go online, there’s thousands of people talking, writing, consulting about difficult people, right? So, see, we want to keep our antenna up for something that’s one of a kind instead of one of many.

I was very lucky, the first session I gave on that, there was a gentleman in the audience, he didn’t even get up at the first break to get a cup of coffee, he was just staring off into space and I went over. I was curious, I said, “What are you thinking?” and he said, “Sam, I’m a real estate broker.” He said, “I deal with some really demanding people.” And he said, “I thought you were going to teach us some zingers to fire back at them and put them in their place.” He said, “That’s not what this is about.” And I said, “That’s right.” And he was the one who said, “I’m a student of martial arts.” He said, “I studied Karate, Taekwondo, Judo,” He said, “What you’re talking about is like a verbal form of Kung Fu, isn’t it?” Kung Fu!

John:
Nice. A matter of fact, I see you have a book here that says, Tongue Fu.

Sam:
That’s right and see, Tongue Fu, see, when you create something that’s one of a kind, you can trade market it, then you can merchandise it, monetize it in perpetuity. I just got back and this is more than 15 years after I wrote the book, I just got back from South Korea where I spoke at the Asian leadership conference with Prime Ministers and President and see the power of coming up with something that pops is it really does help get people’s attention in a noisy world, gets their eyebrows up, and hopefully then opens the door to you making a difference and earning a living doing what you love.

John:
I love it. Got Your Attention?: How to Create Intrigue and Connect with Anyone. Pop and Tongue Fu in addition to ConZentrate and What’s Holding You Back. I mean, I’m going to buy everyone and study them, because it’ll just give us so much valuable information. Sam, how can our listeners follow you on social media and what’s the best way to keep track of what you’re doing and how does someone, you know, reach out to you if they want to hire you to be a speaker, etc?

Sam:
Well, thank you. You can go to the website, it’s real easy to remember, SamHorn.com and Twitter handle, we’ve been tweeting some things out during this is @SamHornIntrigue. Find us on Facebook and I blog regularly on LinkedIn and on our website, so you can check us out there and if you have a pitch coming up, if you want to get a yes, if you’re doing a TED talk, if you want to write a book, if you want to position yourself as a one of a kind expert, get in touch with us Cheri (at) IntrigueAgency.com and she’ll send some information and maybe we can have a chance to work together.

John:
Fantastic. I can speak to your blogs are incredibly well written, intriguing, of course, much like your books and personality, thank you so much for being on the show. It’s been an honor.

Sam:
I’m thoroughly enjoyed it. Hope people found it interesting and useful.

John:
Bye.

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